Abusive Lesbians

Abusive Lesbians

Please tell me why so many women, straight and gay put up with abusive relationships? I get emails every week from women in terrible relationships....

la10

Rules for Chasing Straight Women

Written by Guest Butch, Raye A couple of years ago my friend Stacey (queen of the straight chick rodeo) blogged these rules for lesbians who chase...

How To Be a Lesbian

How To Be a Lesbian

Alright, so if you’ll look over in the right hand column down to recent comments, you’ll see a few new comments on When you realize...

Gaydar_mobil

Activating your Gaydar

I realized something disconcerting: when my love life is a disaster zone, I’m quite prolific with my writing. In all areas: blogging, work, school...

kdc

Butch By Association

I find it endlessly interesting, the way that us lesbians feel the need to categorize ourselves and each other into these limiting roles of femme,...

Why don’t femmes pay?

Why don’t femmes pay?

Why don’t femmes pay? When we were up in Oregon on our road trip to visit Remi’s family, we stopped by her sister’s work. It’s a pretty small...

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Butch/Femme relationships versus lesbian relationships

Now before you go and bite my head off yelling at me that butch/femme relationships are lesbian relationships let me tell you that I am well aware of...

Hard Femmes

Hard Femmes

As you can see by the post date on this, it’s another one I pulled from the archives and I wrote this long before the Real L Word. So this has...

Top 10 Reasons You’ll WANT to Date Me.

Top 10 Reasons You’ll WANT to Date Me.

Another oldie but goodie … it’s crazy reading these old blogs that were written B.R. (Before Remi) 1) 2) 3) Oh man, who am I kidding?...

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11 Reasons NOT to Date Me

(Pulled this one up from the archives. My my how things have changed! Remi has really transformed every part of my life for the better.) Maybe I...

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