When I’m speaking of women that make good friends, I’m talking about to other women. I’ve touched on this topic before in my blog about lesbians making awesome friends. But a new friend of mine inspired me to add to the list.
Apparently, porn stars also make great friends. My friend Nica is in the adult industry. She writes, directs and stars in erotic films that cater to the female audience.
From the moment we met there was this amazing connection. I can only liken it to when you’re a little girl and you get a new best friend. You can talk all day and night about anything or nothing at all. You have instant trust in one another and it’s just plain old fun to hang out together. Well, it’s that fun with Nica … except instead of being two little girls in grade school, she’s a porn star and I’m a blogging lesbian. Can you see the potential trouble we could get into? Well we can and we look forward to every moment of it.
But I was thinking about how some people might judge her on what she does for a living and how inaccurate those presuppositions would be. Because the more I get to know her the more I see what an amazingly honest, up-front, genuine and kind person she is. I think that maybe, because of what she does for a living (which is fucking cool) she lives her private life in such a way that she’s almost above reproach. By that I mean, she’s not the type of woman to stab another woman in the back. If she’s your friend, than you’re pretty lucky.
Anyways, I could go on and on about how great I think she is, but then everyone at our gym will think I’m sleeping with her … already. 
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All I can say after reading this is that I feel luckier than ever to have met you. You’re not only gorgeous on the outside but you do and say everything from your heart, and that’s really hard to find — in a friend OR a lover. I can’t wait to have our adventures begin. xoxo