Card Carrying Lesbian … What’s in your wallet?

I am allergic to commitment. Well, maybe not commitment as much as monogamy. As most of you know, I am notorious for my short lived, albeit passionate dalliances. However, recently I’ve been trying something new. It’s called being an adult in an a mature and healthy relationship. We aren’t “together” yet, in the wear my [...]

Now before you go and bite my head off yelling at me that butch/femme relationships are lesbian relationships let me tell you that I am well aware of that fact.
Having been involved in a butch/femme dynamic I am still wheeling from the stark differences between what it’s like to date a butch and what it’s [...]

Something funny happened when she told me, “I didn’t expect to fall for you so fast.” I could barely hear her over the music and the crowd of pretty gay boys packed into the Abbey as if it were the only place in West Hollywood that night. When she said that, I felt like the [...]

Every time I go into Whole Foods the check out girls are always very friendly. But last night was exceptional. I was in Whole Foods with Mr. and she had just bought me a little thing of organic perfume, Mediterranean Fig, when the checker girl … a cute little suicide girl wannabe exclaimed, “Ooooh I [...]

In response to a few emails about me leaving you guys hanging, sans any juicy updates … all I can say without causing myself any real romantic harm is this: The worst thing I ever did was date women who knew about this blog! It’s pretty hard to be brutally honest about all the stupid [...]

It has come to my attention from several sources, including that of my own personal opinion that the “other girl” has far outgrown that oversimplified pseudonym. After several rather mind-blowing dates she definitely deserves a new alias for future references in my simple little blog. But what shall I call her?
The girl ? Ummm maybe [...]