Card Carrying Lesbian’s been growing quite a bit lately and it’s outgrown it’s current template. So I’m taking the plunge and going to attempt to redesign the page a bit, please be patient for a day or two till I figure out how to tweak it and make it perfect for you. So please be [...]
Archive | February, 2009
It’s my weekend ….. so here
My girlfriend’s days off work are Thursdays and Fridays and since I work from home, I’m able to make those my days off too …. hence the lack of blogage the last two days. But Remi and I were playing with the kids today and got some ridiculously cute pics. Like typical mom’s we want [...]
The List
Drum roll please …… OK so in racking my brain to remember every place in Los Angeles that I’ve been able to pick up women, get picked up on or just spied some juicy possibilities I have come up with the following list. (Sorry to my readers who are not local, but maybe your home [...]
Activating your Gaydar
I realized something disconcerting: when my love life is a disaster zone, I’m quite prolific with my writing. In all areas: blogging, work, school … the whole sheebang. However, on the flip side, when I’m looking through rose colored glasses, freshly laid and amorous towards my girl, my creative streak takes a hit. I mentioned [...]
Just Wear It, Dang It!
Click on the image to go the WhiteKnot.org and wear something to show the world that we’re everywhere. We’re not going to hide in the shadows afraid to make waves in a conservative world. We deserve equality and we’re not going to give up till we get it. The following is from White Knot: Wear [...]
Multiple O’s = Domestic Goddess
Just when things seem hopeless …. great sex saves the day. Last night when Remi got home, we both were in polite mode. Yes, please and thank you’s were exchanged as if we were strangers sharing an uncomfortably small cabin on a train. The same feeling of not being able to get off till the [...]
Judge Not My Twittering
So I may be the last blogger or the last lesbian to join twitter but I finally did it. As you can see in my side bar or by clicking here. I wasn’t really sure about it at first but I like it. I get to text message random thoughts, rants and wants 24/7 … [...]
My first Ultimatum: Me or Her?
Remi and I are fighting. We’ve barely spoken since last night. She came home from work and for some reason everything she did was on my last nerve. Little things like not washing her dishes and expecting me to do it all the time to not wanting to eat dinner with me, even though I [...]
Two Lesbians Walk into the VA ….
Going to the Long Beach VA with my Marine girlfriend is always an experience within itself. The other day, she had to go in to get her wrist checked. Apparently, dating me may give her carpal tunnel syndrome or worse. As soon as we step foot on VA soil, we go into “act straight mode” [...]
Lesbian Housewives
I’m sure some of you have seen some of the comments a few readers have left me, indecent proposals I suppose. If I were single I’d be flattered, maybe a little worried since some of them have a bit of a stalker feel to them. But still flattering non the less. Let’s take a look [...]
Apple Stores: The New Gay Cruising Zone
Like a lot of gay people, I’m a Mac girl. As in, my laptop is an Apple and I should have a permanent jack implanted in my head for my Ipod. I actually have three Macs and two Ipods, so if that doesn’t make my point I don’t know what will. I’m a died in [...]
Butch By Association
I find it endlessly interesting, the way that us lesbians feel the need to categorize ourselves and each other into these limiting roles of femme, butch, tomboi, androgynous and futch (right in the middle between femme and butch). I’m sure I’m missing some, but these are the ones I hear most often. Actually, I usually [...]
Damsel in Distress seeks Hero on White Steed
Last night after the lights went out, my gf and I started having one of those deep conversations that only come from being a little drunk or so tired you’re almost delusional. We were both exhausted, which translated into being too tired to hit the edit button on our brains. There’s also something about talking [...]
Little Ms. Innocent is a Masochist! Oh my!
There’s nothing I love more then when a reader leaves a comment that inspires an entire blog. Donna had this to say about my less then stellar behavior at Girl Bar last week, “Maybe you pick fights with her because they translate into hot sex?” Mmmmm ….. let me think about that? That sort of [...]