Written by Guest Butch, K Its the simple things that make life worth living. Recently there was a lot of….interesting response to Sasha’s blog about marriage. Now although she very obviously appreciates the little things judging by her vlog we should all remember those things. In Sasha’s conclusion to her dykey drama she mentioned that [...]
Archive | March, 2010
My Girlfriend :)
This is Remi’s new bikini …. I picked it out. What do you think? I think the boy shorts are perfect for her tomboi personality. But still shows off her … ummm … assets Share on Facebook
Man-hater or gay-basher….does it really matter?
Written by Guest Butch, K Who are we? The writers of this blog, Sasha, Raye, LB_Boi, and myself included are gay advocates. As gay advocates, we have a responsibility to ourselves and our community to educate anyone who is unaware of us. That being said, remember our allies. Remember who we need as allies. 75% [...]
Yummy Dyke Drama Concluded
OK people. Thank you for ALL your input ….. especially the very lawyerly sounding advice from Baba . I know that my reasoning on these two topics is contradictory and doesn’t follow a logical line of reasoning. However, love is never the easiest thing to stay objective and rational about, so give a girl a [...]
Rumors I accidentally started …..
I think the still frame of this vlog totally looks like I’m about to say something like, “And then she pulled out a dildo that was THIS BIG!” Share on Facebook
Butch or Bitch… it really doesn’t matter.
Written by Guest Butch, Raye K brought up the subject about nature vs. nurture when it comes to being queer or straight. My girlfriend Sarah and I were just discussing Shiloh (daughter of Brangelina) the other day as I was perusing her weekly smut magazine and Sarah noted that the media will all think she’s [...]
Author Confusion
Just a really quick note here: A few of you have mentioned not realizing that a particular post was not written by me. While that is very flattering, that you see similarities between my work and that of my Guest Writers, I realized that the tiny little byline under the title isn’t really big enough, [...]
To Strap or Not to Strap…
Written by Guest Butch, Raye Ok so lately I have seen a lot of debate about the strapon question and I would like to address it. I have noticed that there are many femmes and “gold stars” in our community who are quite proud of the fact that they do not partake in penetration via [...]
I hate myself right now.
I remember when I was living the lie of a straight chick. Because I never really felt anything for any man I ever dated, other then mild disdain, I was the furthest thing from a desperate girlfriend any of them will ever know. In fact, I was so, take it or leave it, I always [...]
Is it any wonder?
Written by Guest Butch, K Sooo for those of you who aren’t aware, your parents probably ruined you while you were children. Not by fighting in front of you or smoking and drinking too much, no they probably let you pick your own clothes out when you were a kid. Which according to our neighborhood [...]
Butch on Butch? Oh!!!
Remi isn’t from CA and she’s always going on and on about how different LA lesbians are from lesbians in other areas. (As in more hot femme girls walking around, her words not mine.) However, being a local this never really seemed to ring that true for me. I mean come on, a gay girls [...]
Gay Bashers
Written by Guest Butch, K My neighbor seems uncomfortable with me. I was outside today with J and the kids…when our neighbor pulled up. Now seeing as how I was doing my butch thing (climbing around on the roof cleaning my gutters out and such like that,) I noticed a branch from my neighbors tree [...]
Hot Ghost Hunter
OK, so it’s no secret that I’m a huge dork. It’s a fact of life that over the years, I’ve come to embrace. Part of my dorkiness pride lies in my love for all thing Buffy the Vampire related and Ghost Hunters. If any of you don’t know, Ghost Hunters is a reality show, about [...]
Bustin outta the closet
Written by Guest Butch, K Here it is. Let’s delve into my past. I’ve noticed that many of you CCL readers are questioning whether or not you fit under this so-called genderqueer umbrella. So I’ll tell you my story…. When I was younger….and by younger I mean a little elementary school kid. I always noticed [...]
Butch, Tomboi, Boi ????
So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she’s the “butch” in the relationship … duhhhh ….. but she doesn’t identify as butch. I don’t get it. I think butch is less of a fashion statement and more of an attitude and a way you approach life. So instead of writing about it, [...]