Have I mentioned that I’m slightly obsessed with Apple’s new iPad? For anyone living under a technological rock, it’s Apple’s new tablet computer. Not to down play it or anything, but it’s sort of like and over-sized iPod touch. Which yes, I do already have and is the only reason I’m barely able to contain [...]
Archive | June, 2010
Remi, Blackjack & iPads
So a few of you have asked about Remi’s big night out. I’m sorry it took me so long to write about it but here’s a quick little rundown. Her play date with her friends was last Monday night. Granted, the entire day before I was totally mopey, feeling sorry for myself in advance that [...]
“Family”
I am not close to my family ….. at all. I didn’t grow up near any of my cousins or other relatives and I was lucky if I saw them once a year at Christmas. As we’ve all grown up it’s become painfully apparent to me that we will never be very close. Enter Facebook [...]
Hoo-rah
Written by Guest Butch, K So as of the last year I’ve been sincerely considering the military. I’m finally getting my weight down to the necessary point, and I think it’d be good for my family. I’ve always considered Army or Marines but over the past week have had my eyes opened to other branches [...]
US stands by as Iraqi officials abuse LGBT people? (No duh!)
I don’t have television so I get to pick and choose my news. Which is why 365 Gay is one of my daily stops to see what’s cooking in the world. Today I saw this …. are we really surprised that the U.S. government doesn’t really give a damn about gay people? Helloooooooo?????? They don’t [...]
The 3 B’s of yesterday – part 2
The guy I thought I had ditched and by now had convinced myself was never even looking at me was sitting behind me on a chair, checking my ass out as I looked for lesbian erotica. Fantastic. To think, a few moments before he made his presence known, I was mentally berating myself for being [...]
Bookstores, Black Guys & Butches
In preparation of Remi’s big night out with the guys, I took myself out today. On a date. Sort of. Well I have this wicked sore throat and trying to be a good friend, have been keeping my cooties far away from Lana. Which means that when Remi’s at work, I’m flying solo on any [...]
Remi’s Night Out
I had this brilliant idea that Remi and I should start doing things on our own. As in, without being glued to one anothers side 24/7. You know, like hang out with our friends, go to the gym …. normal things that we used to do before we were a cohabiting unit that seems unable [...]
I didn’t mean that!!!
OMG, I keep getting angry comments on my blog about my experience in San Diego, at Gossip Grill, where I realized that the crowd was more Butch on Butch love, then Butch on Femme energy. Which was cool with me!!!! I mean, hell, I was there with my girlfriend. So it wasn’t like I was [...]
Letting Go
Written by guest writer, K Very recently and somewhat not so recently J and I have had quite a few problems. They all surround her ex, who creates issues for me, not her. I hate that she sees her. I do not believe that “Jake” has any right to be around her or my kids. [...]
CCL Has A New Femme
I’ve been asked several times if and when I was going to have a femme guest writer, join us on CCL. To be honest, I didn’t think I would. Being a femme myself, I felt that I wanted to share my space with voices opposite of my own. Which is why I have Raye, LB_Boi [...]
Remi & Tony
You guys might be wondering how Remi reacted to Tony’s temporary insanity? Well true to form, she took a deep breath after I told her …. listened to the entire situation ….. took another breath and then discussed it with me. She was not happy. But she didn’t overreact either. She realized right away that [...]
The Lucky One
I guess some times it’s easy to forget how lucky I am that you love me. It’s easy to forget how truly damaged I am and what a lucky girl I must be, that someone like you puts up with me. I’m told all the time, that I should thank my lucky stars for having [...]
Tony’s Pride: Part Deux
Yep, in a blurry moment of too much booze on her part and me, trying to be a comfort to her, Tony tried to be as slick as a 10th grade horny teenage boy ….. and tried to turn a friendly hug into something a little more. It was just one of those hugs. You [...]
Why I Love Butches: Part 2
I was trying to save this for tomorrow but Melissa beat me to the punch with her comment on Ivan’s last video … so here you go …. enjoy. Of course, you had to know that Ivan would activate my stalker gene, at least a little. After yesterday’s video I was slightly obsessed and spent [...]