You know I love it when any of CCL’s Guest Butches chime in . Well here’s a response from Guest Butch Raye. Hey Martini-gurl, I decided to form this response to Sasha’s straight girl blog as a full on blog for two reasons: First I knew it would be long winded, therefore did not need [...]
Archive | August, 2010
Straight Women Falling for Lesbians
What’s on tap for today? Well first order of business is a pressing matter that several readers have written to me about. Straight women falling for gay women. It goes a little like this: Straight woman, married with children meets and falls head over heels for a lesbian. Straighty leaves her hetero life for her [...]
Master Cleanse Drop Out
I’ve had that song, “Beauty school drop out” playing on a loop in my head all day. Only in my version I hear, “Master cleanse drop out Baby get moving (Baby get movin), Why keep your feeble hopes alive? What are you proving (What are you proving)? You’ve got the dream but not the drive [...]
Day 1 of The Master Cleanse
Confession time: I’ve been hiding from my own life for months now. Maybe even years if I’m honest about it. I don’t know how much of it has to do with the whole bipolar thing, and how much of it is just because I’m fucked up. But there are some things about myself that need [...]
The Road Trip From Hell
Sorry that it’s been so long since my last blog, but read on and you’ll see why. Last I told you all, we were headed north for a little road trip so that Remi could meet my sister and niece for the very first time. My sister lives in northern Cali and my niece (her [...]
Court temporarily blocks California same-sex couples from marrying
Posted by Guest Butch, K The following was found on cnn.com. A federal appeals court in San Francisco, California, has blocked same-sex marriages in that state from resuming immediately, until the three-judge panel hears broader questions over the constitutionality of such marriages. The brief order from the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals late Monday set [...]
Road Trip!
Remi and I are headed out bright and early this morning for a little road trip. We’re headed north so that she can meet my sister and niece for the first time!!! My sister has always been supportive of me being gay …. sort of. I love my sister to death but occasionally she says [...]
Social Experimentation
One of CCL’s favorite butches chimes in on the “Real” L Word …. The following post was written by Guest Butch, Raye Watching The Real L Word was never a huge priority for me because somehow I knew it would never be “real” to me. However, I recently got a promotional deal for Showtime with [...]
The Sexy Art of Glenn Arthur
You all know my penchant for beautiful art, especially when the subject happens to be the fairer of our species. Recently a reader turned me on to the art work of Glenn Arthur. I took a look at his art and was instantly hooked. I would love to have one of his pieces hanging over [...]
Who Are You, Really? Part Deux
She definitely hit a nerve in her first blog, so Guest Butch K has a follow up. Enjoy. Written by Guest Butch K Well….that was quite a response to the first part of this blog….I didn’t know there’d be a second one, however its interesting to see you CCL readers think. So for this one [...]
So you wanna get married ……
If you’re one of the lucky couples and your love life corresponds to the recent, monumental gay rights win, and you want to take advantage of gay marriage being legal (because we all know it’s not over yet). You may be wondering how to go about actually getting hitched. Well I found this great article [...]
Dear Ignorant Dork
I received this comment on an old blog about Horny Straight Men in Lesbian Bars and I thought I would address it here, so that anyone else who might have some helpful advice could charm in as well. He wrote: I’m a straight guy going on a date with a straight girl to a gay [...]
Will You Marry Me? On August 18th?!
So it looks like it’s really going to happen! Gay marriage will be legal in the state of California next Wednesday, August 18th! I can’t really rephrase the court happenings any better then Adam Brink from the Prop 8 Trial Tracker, so here you go. Read for yourself and maybe, just maybe plan a quicky [...]
Who Are You, Really?
Another thought provoking post by Guest Butch, K RadDyke makes an interesting point. I’d like to explore it. She is right in looking at the article I previously posted and saying that the label is shaky at best. So then, that poses a question. Who are you, really? Why do you identify as a lesbian [...]
Late Life Lesbians May Not Have Always Been Gay!
Another great article I found and had to share. I thought this was interesting because I didn’t know I was gay until I fell in love with a particular girl at 24. But now, I’m SOOOOOO gay, I wonder how I didn’t realize it sooner. I’ve been attributing my late bloomingness to the fact that [...]