A few of you may remember reading about my friend Tony and her woman drama with a femme fatale named Willa. Well, something has recently come to light concerning my friendship with Tony and well …. she knew I would have to blog about it. So here it goes. First a quick history briefing on [...]
Archive | September, 2010
My defense… gloves off
You know I felt it appropriate to discuss this matter rationally and with clarity of thought. But then my reaction to LB’s post pissed me off & I thought I would fight fire with fire. I make no apologies for the observations I made. The only place I feel mistaken is trying to relate to [...]
CCL’s OTHER Butch Weighs In: K’s take
As the only Guest Butch who didn’t blog about this…I’ll answer to it now. I consider myself chivalrous. But more than that I consider myself a protector. J questions my motives. However she does so as a result of a life time of hurts…much like any of us. To say that past hurts do not [...]
Both Sides of the Fence
As I sit down to write this, my amazing girlfriend is hard at work outside, cutting and painting our new moulding. Before you ask yourself why I’m not helping her, it’s because she won’t let me. She hardly ever lets me do anything more then hold the end of the measuring tape or balance a [...]
A Twist on the Dear John Letter
I heard about this book the other day and thought that more then a few of my readers would enjoy it, identify with it, get a kick out of it. I know I had my very own Dear John, I’m in love with Jane moment and it didn’t go over so well. Hopefully some of [...]
Mixed Messages & Gym Buddies
OK, sooooooo ….. a very loyal reader and commenter …. who shall remain nameless, unless she wants to out herself (please feel free to in the comments section) recently left a comment. This comment told us that a straight friend, whom she has a crush on and they have a flirtatious type of friendship going [...]
A Femme’s Take on Chivalry: Part 1
LB_Boi and Raye have recently blogged about chivalry from a butches/bois perspective and I thought it was high time that I chimed in from a femme perspective. When I read LB_Boi’s article, it made me smile and totally reminded me of everything I’ve ever heard Remi say. Then today I read Raye’s and just had [...]
Chivalry is being murdered slowly… mostly by women.
Recently LB_Boi brought up the subject of chivalry and posed the question of whether it is dead or not. As another chivalrous butch, I decided to weigh in on the subject because like it or not, we are a dying breed. And I have a few theories on this. One of them has to be [...]
Yummy Kate Moennig
Anything with Kate Moennig in it always gets my attention. I don’t care what anyone says, Shane was my all time favorite character from the L Word so of course, I’m a huge Moennig fan and am faithfully waiting for her to come out. But until then, sexy photographs of her will do. Enter these [...]
A Samoan Cleric & an Italian Politician walk into a bar …..
… and decide to blame global warming and child trafficking on gay people. Sounds like a joke right? Well unfortunately it’s not. As I have mentioned before, I am half Samoan. Which is something I am very proud of and have always bragged to Remi about how open minded Samoans are about gay people. Well, [...]
Florida To Stop Enforcing Gay Adoption Ban
Florida will immediately stop enforcing its ban on adoptions by gay people following a decision by a state appeals court that the three-decade-old law is unconstitutional, Gov. Charlie Crist said Wednesday. Crist announced the decision after the 3rd District Court of Appeal upheld a 2008 ruling by a Miami-Dade judge, who found “no rational basis” [...]
In Sickness and In Health
Something to know about me: I try very hard to respond to each comment individually (on all four blogs I now write for – sometimes a full time gig by itself!), and I love getting requests for topics and food for thought. With that said, on my last post, Community, Elegy left a comment requesting [...]
PBS Documentary May Be Looking for YOU
Just a really quick note. A producer from PBS just contacted me to see if I knew any Asian or Latina lesbian mothers that would be willing to be interviewed on film for a PBS documentary. They are in the New York area and are looking for couples or parents in that area, but they [...]
Ehh … Bite Me
What’s that old saying? I can’t win for losing? I think that’s it …. yea … well I feel that’s appropriate for my blog. If I’m happy and proud of something and I blog about it, I get comments telling me that I’m a spoiled, good for nothing brat. People say I’m bragging about how [...]
Battling Agoraphobia
I know I’ve sort of joked about being agoraphobic before on here, many times actually as the reason why I don’t get out much. But I’m not kidding. I actually am agoraphobic, I have a doctor’s note to prove it. Or I would have, but I couldn’t leave my house to go pick it up. [...]