Yay! Remi FINALLY got a new work schedule that gives her regular work hours!! This might not sound like the biggest deal in the world but it is. Here, let me break this down in my world: For the last year and some change, my wife’s schedule has fluctuated wildly before settling down [...]
Archive | March, 2012
Yummy Gay Model on ANTM
OK, you caught me! One of my guilty pleasures is watching America’s Next Top Model. I can’t help it, I love that show. Especially when I just want to zone out. I’ll admit, I’m not usually the nicest person when I watch this show, I tend to think a lot of the girls are ditzy [...]
What do you do to get out of a funk?
By Guest Writer, Elegy What do you do to get out of a funk? Some people say “mind over matter” but I can’t help but wonder how many of those people are battling against their own mind, which seems determined to undermine our very efforts to get back on track by continually misfiring like a [...]
Bi-Sexual Lesbians … An Oxymoron?
A bisexual lesbian. Is there such a thing? And if there is, would she be despised by fellow lesbians and looked down on as a traitor? Would men find her unusually exotic, yet too scary to approach? Would the only group she’d really be attractive to be bisexual women and aggressive straight men? While ostracizing [...]
Musical Muse of the Week
Current muse: Goytye’s “Somebody I used to know” featuring Kimbra ….. I have this song on repeat today and it’s the only thing making me feel anything right now. Share on Facebook
Unicorns are Gay Because They Fart Rainbows
OK, so Elegy and I have this ongoing joke about unicorn farts, unicorn poop, etc …. I’m really not sure who started this and that’s not the point. The point is that in my internet search to one-up Elegy in our war of bizarre unicorn paraphenalia I came across this super creepy unicorn mask on [...]
Etsy Queer Team Highlight
When I opened my Etsy store, I joined this awesome group called the Queer Etsy Team. It’s exactly what it sounds like, a group of Etsy sellers that all identify somewhere within the LGBT community. How cool is that? Well today I wanted to introduce you to two of those stores. The first is The [...]
How to Get a Domestic Partnership in Cali
I originally posted this on the Huffington Post. But thought it would be good to have in my archives for when people ask me about it. Before signing domestic partnership papers with my wife last year (yes, I call her my wife), we were told by several people who had walked that path before us [...]
Tony & Willa: a final end
Tony and Willa …. A final end to the story Tony (Alex as she has since outed herself here but for continuity, we will stick with Tony) and Willa have finally come to a sad end. I wasn’t going to write about this out of respect for my friend. But she actually wanted [...]
Bipolar Disorder Sucks
I hate being bipolar. Not all the time, only when the depression side of it comes into play and it feels impossible to even get out of bed. Then I hate it with a vengeance. We all know that I don’t travel well. I don’t really know why. But for some reason the stress (no [...]
Jazz’s Poetry Corner: Red Rings of Hate
By Guest Poet, Jazzy “Red Rings of Hate” (Written by Jazmenha Starileana) “Your years of hate lined up like horses at a starting gate. A red ring fell. Your agenda of deceit quickly known with intentions and efforts to deplete to defeat. A red ring fell. Bow pulled back. Arrow pointed at the target. Your [...]
Sucking Big Butch Cock
By Guest Writer, Elegy I don’t know what it is about strap-ons and dildos that at times make me amorous. I am not interested in giving anything to a man, be he cis or trans- it has nothing to do with dick attraction. I can recognize that it’s not a penis. Honestly, I’ve found dildos [...]
Win Gay Wedding Bling from Equally Wed!
The world’s top, same-sex wedding magazine, Equally Wed is doing a special giveaway from my Card Carrying Lesbian Jewelry Line. Click HERE to go to EquallyWed and try to win you and your honey some free bling!!!! Share on Facebook
Advice for the Marriage-Phobic
What time is it? Oh yea, it’s advice time! Another reader wrote in with a topic close to her heart and she wants you all to weigh in on it. So put your thinking caps on and help her out. She wrote: Hi. I’ve been a reader of your blog for the past 2 months [...]
Cali Poll says “The Writing is on the Wall”
“This Poll is a Caution to the Right Wing That Leads the Republican Party Today,” Says Courage Campaign’s Rick Jacobs Los Angeles — A new Field Poll released today shows that support for same-sex marriage in California has increased dramatically with 59% of residents favoring same-sex unions to 34% who do not — a now-25% [...]