I didn’t have a camera set up last night in our bedroom. But if I had, it would have looked something like this. I was getting a migraine so Remi made it go away. And because I’m stupid busy and haven’t edited the blogs sitting in my drafts, I’m cheating and giving you some of [...]
Archive | June, 2012
Why I Want A Dom
I remember years ago hearing the term “Lesbian bed death” for the first time on the L Word. “Lesbian bed death is a term coined by University of Washington sociologist Pepper Schwartz in her 1983 book American Couples.[1]According to Schwartz, lesbian couples in committed relationships have less sex than any other type of couple, and they generally experience less sexual intimacy the longer [...]
Stand There and Watch Me Burn
By Guest Writer, DDK I think that I’ve mentioned the girl I occasionally see in another post, I think since its an ongoing situation I should explain. This is a long story so I’ll try to shorten it up a bit. A while back my fiancee introduced me to her ex (for blogging purposes we’ll [...]
CCL & A Lesbian Superhero ~ Sounds Promising ;)
OK so remember that cool new lesbian superhero I told you guys about? Iridian. Well as it turns out, her creator, Paul J Salamoff is cool as hell! He’s such a great individual and talented writer who’s created a lesbian superhero, helloooooo!!!!! Do you get how cool this is? Do you get how important this [...]
The Pleasure Chest & Extreme Sex Classes
An interesting turn of events have taken place since my posts on S/M and open relationships. (Besides learning that the proper acronym for S&M is simply SM or S/M) A few nights ago, I was reading the comments to Remi and she made a joke that she could get me a choke collar. I smiled [...]
I’m in Autostraddle!!!
Holy cannoli batgirl! I’m in Autostraddle!!!!! For those who might not know, Autostraddle is one of the biggest, most popular lesbian websites in the world. And I’ve been a HUGE fan of their’s FOREVER. So ummm … yea, who’s one of the cool kids now??? lol Anyways check it out!!!! And I have to thank [...]
More Lesbian Superheros? Yes please.
I was recently contacted by Paul J. Salamoff about a Kickstarter campaign he is working on for his graphic novel called Discord. Now why would I be telling you about some dude’s graphic novel? Well because one of his main characters is a lesbian! Her name is Iridian and she is a strong female role [...]
Reply Blog to the S&M Post
By Guest Writer, DDK To write a really long comment in the form of a blog here; Sasha I think I see Remi’s point of view here. My girl loves to be my little suby and so does the girl that I’m seeing on and off. Although I’m not that into the whole S&M Dom [...]
Knock It Off
By Guest Writer, Elegy How do you feel about knock offs? My position didn’t so much evolve as much as sprout into blossomed existence after posing this question to a peer and being given this succinct gem: Personal style has nothing to do with designers. I appreciate the effort that is put into creating [...]
S&M Anyone??
How do you feel about S&M? Personally, I like it. Now this isn’t something I’ve talked about too much with a lot of people. But with my recent confession of exploring open relationships, I thought why not admit that nothing makes me cum harder then a firm hand around my throat? Surprised? Well you shouldn’t [...]
Introducing Guest Writer, DDK
By Guest Writer, DDK Guess I should do a proper introduction huh? A little bit about me: Usually I can be on the shy side and my girl is more outspoken than me. Speaking of which, I’ve been with my wonderful soon to be wife Kirsten for nearly three years now and she’s been reading [...]
Lena
Holy crap people. I was going to wait and dole out little blogs about our thoughts on opening up our marriage and our new friend Lena. But since the comment section jumped off and my cell phone blew up, immediately after posting her picture, I thought I had better write a follow up fast! [...]
Roles
By Guest Writer, DDK Ok so the whole butch and femme dynamic is something that I’ve always been used to. I’ve always been the “guy” in the relationship, whether with friends, family, or in romance. It’s something I’m proud of. I’ve always been the strong one, the one girls go to for a hug or [...]
Flirting: First step towards an open relationship?
This seems to be a topic Remi and I keep coming back to: Open relationships. Very recently a woman came into our lives that has reignited this topic. Oh wait, I haven’t told you about her yet? Well let me fill you in a bit …… It actually starts before Remi and I ever began. [...]
Eating Rainbows
I always write with music on. But today I didn’t know what to listen to so I used the itunes genius mix thing-a-majig and this song started playing. In the first few bars I mistaenely thought it was an old Prince song. Which made me smile and get ready to start dancing in my chair. [...]