By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Dating. It’s a fun thing to do. It’s a happy thing to do. It’s a maybe-meet-the-person-you’re-meant-to-be-with-for-the-rest-of-your-life thing to do. Unless it’s one of the worst nights of you life and you find yourself at home after hearing information you never needed to know, picking pieces of bone out of your [...]
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Stupid Questions Men Ask
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai If you’re a lesbian, why do you fancy people who look like men? This is a question I have had countless of times. And it’s probably more insulting than any of the other questions you might get. And with all the ‘Have you not had a proper man?’ and ‘Can [...]
That Question
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Another night in Straight Scene. Yey… Not. I need to make sure I say no to these things, I need to cling onto the walls of my flat and not let my friends drag me out. Or I should just move house. Maybe America, where people think my accent is [...]
Gay Single Girl in Straight World
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Being dragged out by my many straight friends to a straight scene and having to act all straight is always somewhat vexing. I feel annoyed that it is taking up my evening, and disappointed at the prospect; the type of disappointment you feel when you get to the top of [...]
Living alone – The Upside
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Being single does have its perks. The living arrangements can be one of them. The living alone thing can have it’s up and it’s down. These points are the ups of being free to do what I want, free of makeup and if I so desire, free of clothes. Yes [...]
Being single at Dinner Parties
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai It’s the Bridget Jones moment all over again when you walk into a room full of happy couples and have to sit on the end of the table. You can’t call it the head of the table like you’re an important guest because you’re only sitting there because you haven’t [...]
Going to weddings single
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Ah summer is starting to hit England and by this I mean it’s warm enough to only wear one jumper, people are getting into their happy places. And as soon as the sun starts the shine, more people start to get to that crazy stage of getting married. I have [...]
Being Single
By Guest Writer, Effi Mai Being single can be great. You can go out whenever you want without having to ‘check’ with someone first. You can kiss a gorgeous stranger without having to check if it’s ok with said person too. You only clean up your own mess, you can eat what you want, go [...]