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	<title>Card Carrying Lesbian ... What&#039;s in your wallet? &#187; Advice</title>
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		<title>Bipolar Question Answered</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 21:25:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Bipolar Sasha]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Featured]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I swear that CCL has not become a &#8220;marijuana blog&#8221; &#8230;. I didn&#8217;t even want to write about this. In fact, it&#8217;s felt a lot like coming out all over again, except it&#8217;s harder. Because unlike being gay, I actually had internalized stigma attached to cannabis that I had to get over and I get [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>3</slash:comments>
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		<title>Who Wants More Cake?</title>
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		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/who-wants-more-cake#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2013 03:59:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[cheating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Lesbian bed death]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Sasha, I recently began following your blog and love it! You seem to really know women, so I&#8217;m hoping you can guide me in the best direction. I&#8217;ve been in a relationship with my&#8230;I hesitate to say this, girlfriend, since we were in high school  It was flaming hot the first 2 years, but when [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>3</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice For The Lost</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-the-lost</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-the-lost#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2013 22:32:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=8241</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi Sasha, I think I just need a third party perspective on something and for some unbeknown reason after frequently reading your blog I thought I&#8217;d turn to you. To make a long story short, my girlfriend is totally different when she drinks. She tends to push me away physically and emotionally. She says hurtful [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>4</slash:comments>
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		<title>Menopausal Lesbians</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/menopausal-lesbians</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/menopausal-lesbians#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2013 19:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bipolar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lesbians]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Menopause]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=8177</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I got this email from a reader and didn&#8217;t really have any good advice to offer her. Her problem is that her girlfriend is going through menopause. Which as women, is something we are ALL going to go through eventually. To be more specific, the problem she is having is that her girlfriend is having [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>14</slash:comments>
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		<title>Femme on Femme Advice</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/femme-on-femme-advice</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/femme-on-femme-advice#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Dec 2012 20:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=8083</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I’ve gotten a few emails lately from femmes that are only attracted to other femmes. They are wondering why that isn’t represented more on this, or other blogs. It seems that the butch/femme dynamic is the more widely accepted arrangement. So I wanted to address that a little. First of all, you might not have [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>10</slash:comments>
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		<title>The Straight Girl Curse</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/the-straight-girl-curse</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/the-straight-girl-curse#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7942</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sasha, I just recently discovered your blog and it being fairly late on a night where I had to get up early the next morning, I of course read through several pages of posts and realized that sleep was for the weak.(or maybe just for people who have more self control than I have). I [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>33</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice For a Femme Lesbian in the Closet</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-femme-lesbian-in-the-closet</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-femme-lesbian-in-the-closet#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2012 00:36:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7936</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Firstly I want to say that I *love* reading your blog. Even though Im lesbian, Im not actually all that interested in&#8230; things aimed at the gay community, like Mardi Gras&#8230; or gay porn. (bad example, I know &#8211; shows how out of touch I am.) But I really like your blog.   Ive got [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>18</slash:comments>
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		<title>Congratualtions! You&#8217;re Gay!</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/congratualtions-youre-gay</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/congratualtions-youre-gay#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2012 21:42:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[best friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bisexual]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[coming out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lesbian advice]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7928</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dear Sasha, I am writing to you hoping that you can help me. I am 22 years old and I think I&#8217;m gay. I think I&#8217;m in love with my best friend who is straight! She tells me all the time that if one of us were a boy that we would be perfect together. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>13</slash:comments>
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		<title>10 Signs You&#8217;re Dating the Wrong Person</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/10-signs-youre-dating-the-wrong-person</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/10-signs-youre-dating-the-wrong-person#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Oct 2012 19:14:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7895</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have a few single girlfriends that come to me for dating advice along with the random emails from readers telling me about their loveless love lives and asking me what they&#8217;re doing wrong, or what they&#8217;re missing. And I&#8217;ve noticed a few glaring commonalities among the single and confused. So I thought I would [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>43</slash:comments>
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		<title>Femme Tips</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/femme-tips</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/femme-tips#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2012 03:49:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Featured]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7871</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I just received a call for help from a fellow femme sister. She is tired of being mistaken for a member of PFLAG at gay events. She is tired of having to come out, on a daily basis, of being made to feel that she does not belong to the lesbian community because her physical [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>9</slash:comments>
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		<title>Tips For Helping a Bipolar Partner</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/tips-for-helping-a-bipolar-partner</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/tips-for-helping-a-bipolar-partner#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 17:49:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bipolar Sasha]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bipolar lesbian]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7835</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Within the last week, I received three emails from different women. One that lives with bipolar and two that love women that struggle with it. The most recent email was a bit of an emergency. The girl that wrote to me, loves dearly, a woman that has been suffering with this and in recent weeks, [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/tips-for-helping-a-bipolar-partner/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>11</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice for &#8220;What If?&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-what-if</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-what-if#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2012 18:44:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love triangle]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7331</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[OK here goes&#8230; I am engaged to the love of my life (X)  We&#8217;ve known each other for years and with a lot of ups and downs-broken hearts &#8211; we have finally made it. The heartbreak was caused from her 5 years ago, and then again about 4 years ago&#8230;  But we moved passed it, [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>37</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice for a Butch that loves a Femme</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-butch-that-loves-a-femme</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-butch-that-loves-a-femme#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 18:37:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bipolar lesbian]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[butch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[femme]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rapid cycling]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=7322</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email asking for advice and it was titled, Advice for a butch who loves a bipolar femme? After reading through it, it made my head spin a bit. I’m going to cut her problem down to a short summary because, basically she’s screwed. This butch loves this femme that is bipolar. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>10</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice for a Femme with a Butch Problem</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-femme-with-a-butch-problem</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-femme-with-a-butch-problem#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jun 2012 21:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Butch/Femme]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=6794</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hi Sasha, I&#8217;ve recently become addicted to your blog, especially all the butch/femme threads. I&#8217;m in Australia and haven&#8217;t really had all that much exposure to the Butch/Femme dynamic and am becoming fascinated by it. I&#8217;m trying to work out where I sit in the spectrum. I know labels aren&#8217;t for everyone but I really [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>8</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice for a Lovely Slovakian</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-lovely-slovakian</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-lovely-slovakian#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 May 2012 22:22:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=6757</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dear Sasha, erm, I don&#8217;t even know how to start all this and I really don&#8217;t know why I&#8217;m writing to you either but&#8230;maybe it&#8217;s because I don&#8217;t like to talk to people about my personal, inner life, not even to my friends and I feel like I need to get certain things out of [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>13</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice For a Texan Lesbian</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-texan-lesbian</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-a-texan-lesbian#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2012 23:48:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=6747</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hey Sasha, I need some advice and was hoping you could help. Here’s a little of my background… I’m a 21 year old college student from a small town in Texas (conservative ass town with practically no gay scene). In high school I met this guy and felt a lot of pressure from my mom [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>12</slash:comments>
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		<title>Advice For Lesbians Who Love Bipolar Chicks</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-lesbians-who-love-bipolar-chicks</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/advice-for-lesbians-who-love-bipolar-chicks#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 07:01:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bipolar Sasha]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bipolar disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bipolar lesbian]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=6732</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sasha, I had to write because I can&#8217;t explain how much a part of your blog has helped me. The &#8220;Bipolar Sasha&#8221; blogs have literally helped save my relationship. See, my girlfriend also has bipolar disorder, and I on the other hand am painfully normal. No mania, no adorable quirks, no blind anger. I&#8217;m kind [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>9</slash:comments>
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		<title>Player, Cheater or Just Single?</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/player-cheater-or-just-single</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/player-cheater-or-just-single#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2012 19:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=6666</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Hey Sasha, I have a question for your readers. I&#8217;m having a moral dilemma of sorts. Do you think it&#8217;s alright to date two women at once? I&#8217;ve never been in this position before and I&#8217;m not sure what to do. I can honestly say I like both equally but I don&#8217;t know either well [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>19</slash:comments>
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		<title>Butches with Ink</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/butches-with-ink</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/butches-with-ink#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 May 2012 21:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[dyke]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gay tattoos]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=6571</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A close friend of ours asked me if I took requests. Do I take requests?? Honey puh-leez! I’m all about pleasing Her question to me was actually more for the femmes in the audience. She kindly asks, “What do femmes think of butches with tattoos?” This by the way, is coming from a super suave, [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>43</slash:comments>
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		<title>How to Get a Domestic Partnership in Cali</title>
		<link>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/how-to-get-a-domestic-partnership-in-cali</link>
		<comments>http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/how-to-get-a-domestic-partnership-in-cali#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 18:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I originally posted this on the Huffington Post. But thought it would be good to have in my archives for when people ask me about it. Before signing domestic partnership papers with my wife last year (yes, I call her my wife), we were told by several people who had walked that path before us [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
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