This just in: I think my mom still thinks this whole gay thing may be just a phase. Tonight I was drinking a glass of wine and telling my mom about all the drama my friends and I seem to find ourselves in lately. Frustrated and a little tipsy I asked, “Do you think I’ll [...]
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Do we FUCK too much?
A while ago a reader named Donna left this comment: I think the 20-something lesbians of today are – or are trying to be – the equivalents of the gay men of the 70s. i missed out on all that since I’m now 40, and I’m glad for that. Which made me wonder, do we [...]
High femme vs Stone Femme: one interpretation
There are countless ways to define the femme identity/gender and as many ways for each woman to express it in her own way. But for the purpose of this single blog I will define these two versions as such: High Femme: a femme lesbian who is ultra feminine in her appearance and behavior. May chose [...]
So You Didn’t Read My Warning Label, Huh?
It’s one thing to blog about yourself and confess all the countless reasons that you are unsuitable for “in a relationship” status. But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t sting when one of your “victims” leaves a biting, yet true comment on said blog confirming your less than ideal view of yourself. I won’t apologize for [...]
Where Old Lesbians Go To Die
It can be depressing being a lesbian. Wait, not just depressing but down right discouraging. I could go on and on about how there aren’t enough single, attractive lesbians running around but boo fucking hoo. Who hasn’t heard that a million times? I’ve been feeling especially energetic lately (my euphemism for something a bit more [...]
Musings on Lesbian Promiscuity
From my experiences in the straight world and the lesbian world I’ve noticed something diametrically opposed to one another. Well, at least for myself. When I was dating boys, I thought the fewer men I was with the better. I really kept my numbers low and I was very proud of that fact. However in [...]
Femme vs. Butch …. shouldn’t it be Butch + Femme?
What I’ve noticed when I talk to most lesbians is that they have a strong opinion on butch women. Maybe it’s just because we’re in LA, where the cultural idea of femininity is not only abundant, it’s extreme. If you doubt what I’m saying just look around at all the silicone walking around on two [...]
I try not to date people I’m sleeping with.
So as some of you already know … I had a disaster of a date this weekend. Skipping over the details that bruise my ego I’ll get right to the point. I realize that dating someone is not only bad for me, it’s worse for my career. Because dating implies that I like the person. [...]
Salvage Title Lesbians
On the car lot of lesbian dating there are the “New” lesbians. Those would be your typical baby dykes. Newly out and/or young enough not have been ruined by repeated heartbreaks and Prozac. Then there are the “Certified Pre-Owned” lesbians. Your Certified Pre-Owned Lesbian comes to you in impeccable condition, inspected by technicians using a [...]
Warning: Damaged Dyke …. U-TURN AHEAD
I recently made friends with a pretty cool woman. We even talked on the phone late into the night a few times. Gasp! What’s this? I actually spoke on the phone??? I know! That should tell you how much I like her. Since anyone who even remotely knows me, knows that I don’t do phones. [...]
Bipolar Lesbians Always Take The Rap
Honestly, I think bipolar chicks get a bad rap. Every time some girl goes all fatal attraction and makes bunny stew, she gets labeled, “That crazy bipolar bitch.” What the hell? I would like to take a moment here and say that there is a difference between psychotic sociopaths and bipolar disorder. Here’s a quick [...]
Top 10 Reasons You’ll WANT to Date Me.
Another oldie but goodie … it’s crazy reading these old blogs that were written B.R. (Before Remi) 1) 2) 3) Oh man, who am I kidding? I’ve got bupkis. I sat down tonight and tried to think of a list of reasons why someone would want to date me, to you know … ease the [...]
11 Reasons NOT to Date Me
(Pulled this one up from the archives. My my how things have changed! Remi has really transformed every part of my life for the better.) Maybe I should have posted this earlier, but better late than later. (Slight disclaimer: For the right girl I might be willing to work a bit on 1,2,7 & 8 [...]