OMG, I keep getting angry comments on my blog about my experience in San Diego, at Gossip Grill, where I realized that the crowd was more Butch on Butch love, then Butch on Femme energy. Which was cool with me!!!! I mean, hell, I was there with my girlfriend. So it wasn’t like I was [...]
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Why I Love Butches: Part 2
I was trying to save this for tomorrow but Melissa beat me to the punch with her comment on Ivan’s last video … so here you go …. enjoy. Of course, you had to know that Ivan would activate my stalker gene, at least a little. After yesterday’s video I was slightly obsessed and spent [...]
Why I love Butches
OMG …. I am …. in love. I found this video on my friend Sarah’s myspace page and it literally had me laughing out loud at parts and crying at others. THIS is why I love butches. Please watch the amazingly HOT, Ivan Coyote. If after watching this, you’re anything like me you’ll want [...]
Because Butches Don’t Have Enough BS To Deal With
OK so I came across this article when I was searching for a hot pic of a butchie to post one day. I read it and wasn’t sure if I should feel insulted on behalf of my butch brethren or just amused that this was actually on wikiHow. I’m not a butch so maybe this [...]
The Butch Factor
Remi and I recently watched a documentary called, “The Butch Factor.” I was more then a little disappointed when I realized that it was about our gay brothers and not about butch lesbians. But we watched it anyway. It was actually very interesting. From this documentary it seemed like gay men that are very butch [...]
White Picket Fences
I realized that I have undergone a paradigm shift and I didn’t even notice it. Ten years ago when I was attempting to fit into the “straight girl” life that society had firmly planted my feet upon from the time I was five years old and little boys started pulling my long pony tail, leaving [...]
Militant Femme
OK so maybe I don’t look like what some people might think a “militant dyke” would look like but I have been known to cause my fair share of ruckus in the name of “doing the right thing.” Or so I thought at the time. I have been kicked out of high schools for standing [...]
Butch: The perfect hybrid
We all know my penchant for butches. Remi is not a butch. Anyone else sensing a problem here? OK, well not a problem. Not really, anyway. Remi is a sporty tomboi type of lesbian. Who on occasion will “dyke” it up for me or “butch” it up for the day and she knows that I [...]
Can Butches & Femmes be JUST friends?
OK, I have a question for you. Can butches and femmes be JUST friends? Hold on a second. I can already hear the sneering and the automatic, “Well duh, Sasha! Of course we can!” But before anyone climbs up on their white steed and talks down to me, let me finish. I ask this because [...]
Drag Kings? Yes Please.
OK, so you all know my love for all things butch, so it makes perfect sense that I adore Drag Kings. Or, I would if I could find any good ones! I spent an hour tonight on YouTube looking for a good Drag King video and this is the best I could find …. If [...]
Beautiful Butches?
Recently one of my lovely readers, posed a very good question for my Butch Writers. She asked: What do adjective do butch women prefer??!?? I date rather butch girls and when I tell them they look pretty they say there is nothing pretty about me, but I do think they look pretty…but cute sounds too [...]
Butch on Butch? Oh!!!
Remi isn’t from CA and she’s always going on and on about how different LA lesbians are from lesbians in other areas. (As in more hot femme girls walking around, her words not mine.) However, being a local this never really seemed to ring that true for me. I mean come on, a gay girls [...]
Butch, Tomboi, Boi ????
So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she’s the “butch” in the relationship … duhhhh ….. but she doesn’t identify as butch. I don’t get it. I think butch is less of a fashion statement and more of an attitude and a way you approach life. So instead of writing about it, [...]
A Butch & Her Femme go to the butcher …..
As many of you know, our dogs are our children. I take puppy parenthood very seriously. My little guy, Angel has food allergies which has eventually led us to an all natural home made diet. Don’t worry, fellow animal lovers. I’ve read all the right books, the right supplements and everything has been okayed by [...]
Domestic Partnership Tax Breaks?
Ughhh …. I hesitate to even broach this subject on my blog for fear of what Remi might think, fear of what others may think is my “real” motive, fear of how I may come across on this topic and just overall uneasiness discussing this topic. Because #1) I tend to vacillate on it by [...]