So as you know it was my birthday last Friday. Sorry that it took me so long to document the weekend for your reading pleasure but let’s just say that it was so damn good, it’s taken me this long to recover. Alright then … let’s get down to the business of catching you up. [...]
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Happy Birthday to Me!!!
A very good friend of mine sent this to me from the East Coast and it was so sweet I had to put it up. Thanks J.L. xoxo Share on Facebook
More Sex for my Birthday!
Yikes. I just read my own damn post about my gf complaining about not enough sex. Even though she swore later I misunderstood her. But reading it in black and white I can see her point. Two or three times a week?!!! That just can’t be accurate! And if it is, it’s about to change. [...]
Lesbians and Fight Gyms
Okee dokee … as we all know I’m a dyke and I do dykey things. I like guns, I like cars, I like to wear OD green too much and I have several pairs of “official lesbian shorts” aka plaid and or cargo shorts that are too long for a straight girl to ever be [...]
IM’ing an Angry Ex at Work: Priceless
OMG!!! Instant messaging with your ex, days after getting with your new girlfriend? Not the best idea. Who knew? How can Mr. be mad at me when the whole time we were “dating” I wanted to be with her but she didn’t want a real relationship?! Yet now that I’m with someone else, she’s on [...]
Had to Change my MySpace Status
OK, so after all the deliberating and drama inherently involved in all lesbian relationships, I took the plunge. It’s official. Yep, the Marine and I are happily coupled up. In spite of the fact that she’s getting deployed in exactly two months, I decided it was better to live fully in the present moment and [...]
Vow to Vote NO on the marriage ban!
With 8 weeks to go until Proposition 8 comes to a vote in the State of California, in effort to strike down the measure we call all members of the LGBT community and their supporters to take action with us! We need your help to put a face on the lives of those that this [...]
Not exactly an update
In response to a few emails about me leaving you guys hanging, sans any juicy updates … all I can say without causing myself any real romantic harm is this: The worst thing I ever did was date women who knew about this blog! It’s pretty hard to be brutally honest about all the stupid [...]
The “other girl”
It has come to my attention from several sources, including that of my own personal opinion that the “other girl” has far outgrown that oversimplified pseudonym. After several rather mind-blowing dates she definitely deserves a new alias for future references in my simple little blog. But what shall I call her? The girl ? Ummm [...]
The End of Taylor
As you may have read a few days ago, I met Taylor, the bi-curious school teacher late one night at the corner store. After helping her move her furniture in the middle of the night she quickly turned into more of a problem than I would have hoped for. My first mistake was introducing her [...]
When it’s not you. It’s them … or at least their issues.
A few months ago I went out on a date with a woman who I met online. We hit it off right away via email and telephone conversations, but we all know how little that means until you meet each other face to face. Many would-be love affairs have fallen by the wayside the instant [...]
Restocking Our Shelves with Single Lesbians
Last night at Taco Tuesday my friends and I were lamenting over the seemingly, depressing pool of single women within the lesbian community. Well, at least in our little neck of the woods. I declared, “We must find new blood! We’re ALL single at the same time and we MUST find some new women!” To [...]
Open relationships vs. NSA relationships
In my most recent post blog I asked you, the reader to share your opinion on NSA relationships. While a few of you went beyond the call of duty and made your comments a bit more personal than I had hoped for, a couple of you were kind enough to give me your honest opinion. [...]
No Strings Attached …. Uh huh …. I’m sure that’ll work.
When two women agree on a no strings attached, friends with benefits, don’t ask don’t tell policy attached to their pseudo relationship/”we’re only friends” friendship; what does that say about them? Does that say that one or both of them are: Cheaters looking for an easy, almost honest way to keep sleeping around? Incapable of [...]
I changed my myspace status to “Swinger”
I wonder what weight people actually place on the myspace relationship status thingy? If it reads “single” vs “in a relationship” does that affect whether or not you send them an add request? If it reads “swinger” do you think you have a better shot at getting lucky? Or do think, “Eeeewwww …. my Puritanical [...]