Yay! Remi FINALLY got a new work schedule that gives her regular work hours!! This might not sound like the biggest deal in the world but it is. Here, let me break this down in my world: For the last year and some change, my wife’s schedule has fluctuated wildly before settling down [...]
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Show Me Your Jagger
This is currently one of my favorite songs to dance around to. Whether car dancing with Remi at stop lights with glow sticks or by myself at home in my undies, this is on today’s playlist. After watching the video, I came up with the brilliant idea to have theme nights when we go [...]
Becoming The Woman My Mother Warned Me About
Recently, Remi and I were just chillin’ at the house. Neither one of us had anything to talk about. I hadn’t been anywhere in weeks. Her schedule consisted of work, home, work, home, repeat. She sat there and said, “Well?” “Well what?” I replied. A little miffed that the responsibility of conversation topics seemed to [...]
A Romantic Day Trip
I didn’t mean to leave you guys with a cliffhanger on the last blog. Since really, there wasn’t much of a cliff …. it was more like a nice rolling plateau for the rest of the day. After that magical massage, we took a leisurely drive, further down the coast. Stopping to eat lunch by [...]
Remi’s Perfect Plan
Remi doesn’t usually make the plans. I’m usually the planner in this family, but unfortunately planning = stress and stress = a very bitchy Sasha most times. So Remi had asked me to stop planning things. But without an event planner at the helm, our outings have been non-existent. That coupled with my apathetic attitude [...]
What Marriage Does To You
I asked Remi the other day if she ever finds herself silently saying, “Oh my God! We’re MARRIED!” Because I do! A lot actually. Not as much as the first few months, but every now and then, while going about our regular day I catch myself looking at her and thinking, “This is my wife. [...]
Wedding Plans Postponed!
As a lot of you know, our wedding plans have been postponed. Not cancelled. Just postponed. I swear. Part of me is totally bummed but the other part of me is responsible for the delay, so I figure I don’t have the right to be disappointed. Since it’s kind of my fault. Let me start [...]
In Defense of Our Burlesque Wedding
First of all, thank all of you who commented on my last blog. Even the ones that didn’t approve of my ideas I appreciate your honesty becuase it makes me ask myself those questions and really think about the “why” behind my decisions and actions. So for that, thank you. A couple of the more [...]
“THE” Wedding Theme: Pasties Not Included
I must have some super serious writer’s block because I can’t freakin’ think of anything to write about that’s worth you reading. So, I thought I’d just ramble a bit. We found a wedding venue. No, it’s not the Queen Mary. They want a lotta lotta money for cheese and crackers and I’d rather spend [...]
Sasha’s BIG Secret
I have a secret to tell you all. It’s something that Remi and I have been trying to keep a secret for several reasons. But as time goes on, it’s getting harder and harder to keep to ourselves. I guess I’ll just spit it out. We did it! We signed the domestic partnership papers. Now [...]
Married Lesbian Name Changes
A while ago I posted a blog about some random survey done in some far away land, that said people think differently of women that take their partner’s name after marriage. And by differently, I mean they think we’re stupid. Nice, but stupid. OK, maybe I’m paraphrasing but that was what I got from it. [...]
Idea #4: The Roaring 20′s
The idea of a costume themed wedding really took hold in my imagination. I started brainstorming about how I could incorporate the feel of a costume party without letting it take over. Then the idea of a vintage themed wedding popped up. I’ve always loved old cars, the glamour of old Hollywood, retro fashion and [...]
Wedding Dilemma
You all brought up so many good points about the type of wedding we’re going to have. Is it sacrificing our individuality for tradition? Is giving into pressure to prove something really just selling out? Is it even worth it to spend all that money just to prove to our straights, that our marriage is [...]
Lesbian Hubby
I don’t know how I feel about the word fiance. I mean, I love it because it means she finally popped the question! But when I refer to her in conversation I catch myself still using the term “girlfriend” because “fiance” gets stuck in my throat. I don’t know, I almost feel as if it’s [...]
CCL’s Latest Category
One of CCL’s favorite readers, who has also become an email buddy of mine has mentioned she would enjoy some more Sasha & Remi love story. LOL Well …. I did the next best thing. I went through the archives and made a new category: Remi & Sasha. So please take notice of the new [...]