After multiple mental run-throughs of our various destination wedding ideas, I started to freak out. Was I cheating myself by simply having a pool-side cocktail party wedding? Was the original “no-stress” virtue of this plan actually a compromise in disguise, slyly cheating me out of my dream wedding? Was I giving up before I had [...]
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Once upon a time …… By Request
One of my favorite readers asked me to blog about how Remi and I met. I could have sworn that I had but after digging in the archives, I realized I never did tell the exact story of how it all began. I think I didn’t want to bore you, but someone asked specifically and [...]
Idea #3: Spooky Sexy Wedding
Halloween is our favorite holiday. Both Remi and I share the love of all things Halloweeny. Personally I think it stems from the following reasons: My birthday is October 10th, so I like to claim ALL of October as my birthday month, leaving Halloween as the perfect end to my month long celebration. I’m an [...]
Idea #2: Back To My Roots
The second idea we had was based on the first one. A weekend, desert getaway but maybe at a different hotel. One that didn’t give off such a Rat Pack vibe (although I do love that) and was more of a blank canvas. This is the Movie Colony Hotel in Palm Springs. There seems to [...]
Idea #1: Weekend Retro Wedding
Back in the not so distant past, when I would day dream about what it would be like if and when Remi ever proposed I used to talk Remi’s ear off about wedding ideas. Even though she hadn’t asked me yet, she would always humor me and we would have these detailed conversations about this [...]
When is the big day?
Oh my goodness, I know I’ve been on a writing hiatus for a while! I don’t really know why either. I was just so excited with everything that’s been happening in my life right now, I went a little ADD. I couldn’t think about anything but weddings and rings and honeymoons and Remi. I seriously [...]
No WiFi in the Woods
I am so sorry that I haven’t written anything this week! But our little engagement honeymoon was high in the mountains, in a little cabin nestled in the woods and there wasn’t any wifi there! Imagine that! We thought we couldn’t live without the internet but we did just fine. Well anyways, a dear friend [...]
I hear bells ……
We had spent the evening at my best buddies house, Lana for a few hours joking around. Around ten o’clock we figured we better get going because we still had to pick up some milk on the way home. Lana lives on a cliff overlooking the ocean and we were parked on that cliff. As [...]
Remi & Sasha’s 2nd Year
Today is our 2 year anniversary …. and they said we’d never make it. I wish I had some wildly romantic story to share with you about how we’re planning on celebrating. But unless you think new furniture is sexy, then I hate to disappoint you. We had been planning for the last six months [...]
Remi & Sasha
When Remi got home from her meeting, she had brought me lunch and acted like everything was normal. Which was nice but also a little infuriating. Part of me wondered if she really thought it would just all blow over that easily? I pointed out the letter to her and she told me, “I don’t [...]
Outlining the Drama
I was still livid the next day when I woke up. She was off work but had to go in for a meeting at the office. While she was gone I wrote up this letter to outline my angle on last night and simply left it on her pillow to read. I know it’s long [...]
Drama In West Hollywood
You know those late nights in West Hollywood when you see random lesbian drama unfold in front of you, seemingly for your viewing entertainment? Like when an angry girlfriend pulls up out side of a night club to pick up her drunk girlfriend who should have been home hours ago? And then the girlfriend’s drunk [...]
Remi, Blackjack & iPads
So a few of you have asked about Remi’s big night out. I’m sorry it took me so long to write about it but here’s a quick little rundown. Her play date with her friends was last Monday night. Granted, the entire day before I was totally mopey, feeling sorry for myself in advance that [...]
Remi’s Night Out
I had this brilliant idea that Remi and I should start doing things on our own. As in, without being glued to one anothers side 24/7. You know, like hang out with our friends, go to the gym …. normal things that we used to do before we were a cohabiting unit that seems unable [...]
The Lucky One
I guess some times it’s easy to forget how lucky I am that you love me. It’s easy to forget how truly damaged I am and what a lucky girl I must be, that someone like you puts up with me. I’m told all the time, that I should thank my lucky stars for having [...]