Comments for Card Carrying Lesbian ... What's in your wallet? http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com The raw, unedited adventures of a femme lesbian and her friends. Sun, 05 Feb 2012 06:20:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 Comment on Landscaping by WWG http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/ladyscaping#comment-487028 WWG Sun, 05 Feb 2012 06:20:10 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5850#comment-487028 Boobs! Yum! Er, um, great topic Sarah! ;-) (I read Playboy for the articles, don't you?) Seriously though, loved it. And ha, not too tmi. Afterall, isn't that the point of this site? Boobs and tmi. Well, and some other stuff too. Boobs! Yum!

Er, um, great topic Sarah! ;-)

(I read Playboy for the articles, don’t you?)

Seriously though, loved it. And ha, not too tmi. Afterall, isn’t that the point of this site? Boobs and tmi. Well, and some other stuff too.

]]> Comment on Butch/Femme relationships versus lesbian relationships by Sasha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/butchfemme-relationships-versus-lesbian-relationships#comment-486982 Sasha Sun, 05 Feb 2012 05:29:29 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=118#comment-486982 Hi Kirsten, I just had to reply to your comment .... When I wrote this particular post, it was about dating a self identified stone butch. It was my first experience dating someone who identified that way and who treated me that way. But I was not saying that ALL butches are like that or that one way is better then another. Others who read my blog regularly know that's actually defend our right to be different and still accepted. This post was about one bad relationship and I compared to my next, still new at the time, relationship. I have since married that "tomboi" and we actually live very much within the butch/femme spectrum. Not because it's better but simply because it's what comes natural to both of us. I'm sorry if this post offended you or anyone else. That was never my intention. Hi Kirsten,

I just had to reply to your comment …. When I wrote this particular post, it was about dating a self identified stone butch. It was my first experience dating someone who identified that way and who treated me that way.

But I was not saying that ALL butches are like that or that one way is better then another. Others who read my blog regularly know that’s actually defend our right to be different and still accepted. This post was about one bad relationship and I compared to my next, still new at the time, relationship.

I have since married that “tomboi” and we actually live very much within the butch/femme spectrum. Not because it’s better but simply because it’s what comes natural to both of us.

I’m sorry if this post offended you or anyone else. That was never my intention.

]]> Comment on Butch/Femme relationships versus lesbian relationships by Kirsten http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/butchfemme-relationships-versus-lesbian-relationships#comment-486928 Kirsten Sun, 05 Feb 2012 04:34:54 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=118#comment-486928 "So we sort of take turns being the dominant one or the girly one." These are not mutually exclusive. Neither is being femme and being able to make your partner weak in the knees with a kiss, or a touch, or a look. Honestly, I could go on an on about the ways this post devalues people who are every bit as much of the gay community as you are, but I have - not lost my fire for it, necessarily, but grown to a place where I don't feel the need to say "this is better than that." If you don't like how certain butches are when you date them, don't date those types of butches. I know plenty of butches who love to be fucked, who don't mind being treated to a nice dinner, who don't know how to program a coffeemaker let alone a universal remote. I guess all I'm saying is, the more we assign actions to identities, the less we value all members of our community. And that gives power and ammunition to those who would take away and deny rights for all of us. Let's not fight their fight for them. “So we sort of take turns being the dominant one or the girly one.”
These are not mutually exclusive. Neither is being femme and being able to make your partner weak in the knees with a kiss, or a touch, or a look.
Honestly, I could go on an on about the ways this post devalues people who are every bit as much of the gay community as you are, but I have – not lost my fire for it, necessarily, but grown to a place where I don’t feel the need to say “this is better than that.” If you don’t like how certain butches are when you date them, don’t date those types of butches. I know plenty of butches who love to be fucked, who don’t mind being treated to a nice dinner, who don’t know how to program a coffeemaker let alone a universal remote.
I guess all I’m saying is, the more we assign actions to identities, the less we value all members of our community. And that gives power and ammunition to those who would take away and deny rights for all of us. Let’s not fight their fight for them.

]]> Comment on Sasha’s Newsfeed by Rexie http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/featured/sashas-newsfeed#comment-486743 Rexie Sun, 05 Feb 2012 01:36:24 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5879#comment-486743 Hmmmmm. Could "roving reporter" be added to your already impressive resume? Checking out all the gayest cities and reporting your take on things to your cult-like readership? Hmmmmm. Could “roving reporter” be added to your already impressive resume? Checking out all the gayest cities and reporting your take on things to your cult-like readership?

]]> Comment on Sasha’s Newsfeed by Elegy http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/featured/sashas-newsfeed#comment-486732 Elegy Sun, 05 Feb 2012 01:12:49 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5879#comment-486732 Wow, at that last pic. XD Somehow I am not surprised. Also, I hope you have some great security arrangements, I worry a bit after what happened last time. <3 Wow, at that last pic. XD Somehow I am not surprised.
Also, I hope you have some great security arrangements, I worry a bit after what happened last time. <3

]]> Comment on Sasha’s Newsfeed by Amanda http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/featured/sashas-newsfeed#comment-486709 Amanda Sun, 05 Feb 2012 00:47:37 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5879#comment-486709 Aww, looky here, Ohio made the blog...how awesome! We totally don't get enough play in Ohio (literally and figuratively, hehe!) :) Thank you, Sasha! I hope you and Remi have the most awesome time on your trip, I know you will! Can't wait to hear all about it! And keep on doing all the awesome things you do - it keeps the rest of us motivated to make the world a better place for others :) Aww, looky here, Ohio made the blog…how awesome! We totally don’t get enough play in Ohio (literally and figuratively, hehe!) :) Thank you, Sasha! I hope you and Remi have the most awesome time on your trip, I know you will! Can’t wait to hear all about it! And keep on doing all the awesome things you do – it keeps the rest of us motivated to make the world a better place for others :)

]]> Comment on Sasha’s Newsfeed by Kristy http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/featured/sashas-newsfeed#comment-486703 Kristy Sun, 05 Feb 2012 00:43:20 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5879#comment-486703 sounds great and i cant wait til i can get a piece of your jewelry congrats on everything wonderful that has and will happen to you =) sounds great and i cant wait til i can get a piece of your jewelry congrats on everything wonderful that has and will happen to you =)

]]> Comment on Sasha’s Newsfeed by young butch http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/featured/sashas-newsfeed#comment-486675 young butch Sun, 05 Feb 2012 00:18:43 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5879#comment-486675 way to go sasha hope you have a blast way to go sasha hope you have a blast

]]> Comment on Jazz’s Poetry Corner: Jack & Jill by young butch http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/jazzs-poetry-corner-jack-jill#comment-486653 young butch Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:59:04 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5782#comment-486653 oh thanks jazz :) oh i was meaning to ask you are you an facebook? oh thanks jazz :) oh i was meaning to ask you are you an facebook?

]]> Comment on Sasha’s Newsfeed by Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/featured/sashas-newsfeed#comment-486651 Jazmenha Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:57:37 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5879#comment-486651 Typo (hehe) meant roadtrip damn iPhone :) Typo (hehe) meant roadtrip damn iPhone :)

]]> Comment on Sasha’s Newsfeed by Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/featured/sashas-newsfeed#comment-486649 Jazmenha Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:56:31 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5879#comment-486649 Sasha I am just incredibly proud of you!!!! Your jewelry line is taking off across the globe! You're writing for the HP. So many wonderful happenings for such a wonderful person. I'm so glad you and Remi are going on abroad trip to Portland. You'll love it. I lived there for two years awhile back. Hey stop by on your dive up the state I'll have vino and a huge antipasto plate and various cheeses waiting for you and Remi. :) Happy travels. Happy life always. Sasha I am just incredibly proud of you!!!! Your jewelry line is taking off across the globe! You’re writing for the HP. So many wonderful happenings for such a wonderful person. I’m so glad you and Remi are going on abroad trip to Portland. You’ll love it. I lived there for two years awhile back. Hey stop by on your dive up the state I’ll have vino and a huge antipasto plate and various cheeses waiting for you and Remi. :) Happy travels. Happy life always.

]]> Comment on Jazz’s Poetry Corner: Jack & Jill by Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/jazzs-poetry-corner-jack-jill#comment-486638 Jazmenha Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:42:43 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5782#comment-486638 YB the comment on there dated Jan 3o or 31st NOT from yesterday (oppps) - it's about an upcoming poem inspired in part by your struggles that u originally write to CCL. never give up on life! YB the comment on there dated Jan 3o or 31st NOT from yesterday (oppps) – it’s about an upcoming poem inspired in part by your struggles that u originally write to CCL. never give up on life!

]]> Comment on Landscaping by Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/ladyscaping#comment-486632 Jazmenha Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:37:37 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5850#comment-486632 LOL YB Yeah I think the whole world knows that w your graphic comments lol on all posts involving naked women. hehe Hey go read my mes on Respect from yesterday! LOL YB Yeah I think the whole world knows that w your graphic comments lol on all posts involving naked women. hehe Hey go read my mes on Respect from yesterday!

]]> Comment on Jazz’s Poetry Corner: Jack & Jill by young butch http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/jazzs-poetry-corner-jack-jill#comment-486630 young butch Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:34:09 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5782#comment-486630 uh yes i did jazz uh yes i did jazz

]]> Comment on Landscaping by young butch http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/ladyscaping#comment-486621 young butch Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:25:51 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5850#comment-486621 jazz you're not the only one getting horny hehehehehehe i'm pretty heated over here too jazz you’re not the only one getting horny hehehehehehe i’m pretty heated over here too

]]> Comment on Landscaping by harper http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/ladyscaping#comment-486592 harper Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:56:29 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5850#comment-486592 ahh yes...hunger pains indeed! i love TMI! thanks sarah m. for the refreshing and titillating read! ahh yes…hunger pains indeed! i love TMI! thanks sarah m. for the refreshing and titillating read!

]]> Comment on Landscaping by Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/ladyscaping#comment-486574 Jazmenha Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:40:57 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5850#comment-486574 OMG Elegy too funny your "I think my pussy’s perfect! (Seriously conceited, but if there were pussy shows like cat shows, I think she’d be a prized miss kitty" hehe Since everyone is throwing out their own personal TMI pussy confessions and their own TMI pussy comments I will force myself out of "sugar coded" politely stated comment I made above and publicly admit that my personal TMI that OMG literally JUST hearing the word "pussy" make me very horny!!!!! LOL I just can NOT help it ;) Now I'm running away LOL And Young Butch after reading your comments here and on my poems and everywhere on CCL lol I seriously think that you should change your CCL name to Eyeballs (aka YB). :) hehe OMG Elegy too funny your “I think my pussy’s perfect! (Seriously conceited, but if there were pussy shows like cat shows, I think she’d be a prized miss kitty” hehe Since everyone is throwing out their own personal TMI pussy confessions and their own TMI pussy comments I will force myself out of “sugar coded” politely stated comment I made above and publicly admit that my personal TMI that OMG literally JUST hearing the word “pussy” make me very horny!!!!! LOL I just can NOT help it ;) Now I’m running away LOL

And Young Butch after reading your comments here and on my poems and everywhere on CCL lol I seriously think that you should change your CCL name to Eyeballs (aka YB). :) hehe

]]> Comment on Landscaping by Elegy http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/ladyscaping#comment-486524 Elegy Sat, 04 Feb 2012 21:41:23 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5850#comment-486524 And since we're taking TMI confessions. I can honestly go either way; I haven't shaved in a while because I just didn't care to, but I do find shaved to be more convenient and time saving. But I don't do it for shaping reasons, I think my pussy's perfect! (Seriously conceited, but if there were pussy shows like cat shows, I think she'd be a prized miss kitty- JS!). And since we’re taking TMI confessions. I can honestly go either way; I haven’t shaved in a while because I just didn’t care to, but I do find shaved to be more convenient and time saving. But I don’t do it for shaping reasons, I think my pussy’s perfect! (Seriously conceited, but if there were pussy shows like cat shows, I think she’d be a prized miss kitty- JS!).

]]> Comment on Landscaping by Elegy http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/ladyscaping#comment-486521 Elegy Sat, 04 Feb 2012 21:39:35 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5850#comment-486521 I did wonder how the shaving preference was with women who are going down on another women. I know what I like, but what about them? Lol. Personally, I haven't yet had the inclination or patience to try designs- I'm more of an acidic hair follicle removal girl anyway. But one thing I love is dyeing it. I did wonder how the shaving preference was with women who are going down on another women. I know what I like, but what about them? Lol.

Personally, I haven’t yet had the inclination or patience to try designs- I’m more of an acidic hair follicle removal girl anyway. But one thing I love is dyeing it.

]]> Comment on Jazz’s Poetry Corner: Jack & Jill by Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/guest_writers/jazzs-poetry-corner-jack-jill#comment-486498 Jazmenha Sat, 04 Feb 2012 21:19:43 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=5782#comment-486498 Dear Novia Thank you so much for the compliment. :) Dear Young Butch Thanks for always being a big fan of my poetry I appreciate that. Hey did u read my mes from yesterday to you on my Respect poem? Dear Novia Thank you so much for the compliment. :)
Dear Young Butch Thanks for always being a big fan of my poetry I appreciate that. Hey did u read my mes from yesterday to you on my Respect poem?

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