I hope I have a chance and if not, I still think you rock,

I’ll email you some of my stories I wrote back in college and if you like it, hit me up. If not, no hard feelings beautiful. I’ll always be a died in the wool follower of CCL.

With guys, I was always drawn to and attracted the “wrong” ones.I wasn’t really good at pegging a male personality that could work in the long term in tandem with mine- and, well, that turned out to be irrelevant anyway as I would eventually lose almost all attraction to any of them at all.

On my first girl date, however, I was able to identify as a total dud by the end of the night, despite spending YEARS chasing this chick and longing for her (or so I thought). Since then, my girl has been the only one that hasn’t sent up some sort of major red flag of some sort or another telling me to “run away!”

Unfortunately, it’s not that easy or simple starting out. Had I gotten with that chick I chased in the early days when we first met and fell for each other, she would have handed me ass on a sandwich between two pieces of my broken heart with a bit already taken out of it.

Also, my partner said she got bitchy looks and reluctant sighs when she had to switch partners…sucks.

im a bit biased since i dont like obvious dresses unless it’s one on one, a date or something…not a formal party.

Good luck!

I came out relatively “late” in life (32) and though I was sexually attracted to women, I could come home from a date and easily identify whether I was interested in a relationship (mostly not). This was in huge contrast to dating men, when I was more “oh I guess he’ll do”. I had no way of identifying good males from bad males, but it seemed to happen naturally with women. And when I met my partner/wife, it all hit me. I wanted to be with this woman… dating casually at first, but soon enough I was in love. It just came naturally. I wasn’t looking for a lifetime relationship, it just works out in my opinion, when you’re dating the right gender.

Be aware that fashion at the white party ranges from a white v-neck shirt & jeans to cocktail dresses like your own.
As long as you’re in all white you’re good to go.

I had a friend wear all red once to stand out … she looked like the only girl that hadn’t gotten the memo about wearing white LOL LOL

Secondly, you cracked me up. I didn’t think those chicks were you…for a few reasons – the most outstanding was because I think that they are of two different races.

Either way, I vote for Remi’s choice. While I do think the second one is classy…the first one looks more party, and the one I’d choose for my chick too.