This seems to be a topic Remi and I keep coming back to: Open relationships. Very recently a woman came into our lives that has reignited this topic. Oh wait, I haven’t told you about her yet? Well let me fill you in a bit ……
It actually starts before Remi and I ever began. There was this girl that Remi was “dating”? …. I used quotation marks and a question mark because that is debatable. But in the very beginning of our relationship we got into a HUGE fight over this woman because she wanted to bring her to my birthday party. Which was fine with me until Remi let it slide that she was the last woman she had slept with before me. At which point, I was not a happy camper that my brand new girlfriend wanted to bring her most recent lover to my birthday.
So that left a bad taste in my mouth about this other woman, at no fault of her own. Over the years they remained friends but I refused to meet with her. I felt a little jealous??? I’m not sure but I avoided meeting her.
Then last month at Long Beach Pride, I see this tall, gorgeous model with legs that reached up to heaven smiling and coming straight at us!!!! It was her. It was Remi’s past lover/current friend bounding towards us like a gazelle. Only I was the deer caught in headlights!!
This amazon of perfection introduced herself to me with the warmest smile and hug ever. I immediately liked her and was more then slightly impressed with my wife for having shared an intimate moment with this gorgeous creature at one time or another.
We immediately hit it off. And I mean IMMEDIATELY. There was a bit of a spark. We couldn’t really stop touching each other! And Remi was more then a little amused.
Our night together was cut short because my new friend, who I’ll call Lena (because that’s actually her name and she’s not shy about anything) had come with a separate group of friends who were leaving early. But it definitely crossed my mind to ask her to stay the night with us in our room at the Marriott.
After she left, Remi admitted that knew we would get along, but had NO idea just how well we would get along! I wasted no time and asked her that night, “So you’d be OK with a threesome with her?”
To which Remi replied, “Hmmmm ….. that might work.”
Well no duh! You guys saw her picture, what woman wouldn’t mind?! But this brought up a lot of interesting conversations. Things that I will have to blog about in several upcoming posts. Including more about Remi and Lena’s history and why I’m so OK with us all hanging out now on a regular basis. But in the mean time, I can tell you that we have taken a baby step into slightly opening the door of our relationship and that baby step is allowing each other a little harmless flirting here and there. We might be married, but we aren’t dead.