There’s nothing I love more then when a reader leaves a comment that inspires an entire blog. Donna had this to say about my less then stellar behavior at Girl Bar last week, “Maybe you pick fights with her because they translate into hot sex?”
Mmmmm ….. let me think about that? That sort of goes along with something Remi said the other day when she found out I was going to my ex’s house to help her out with something. She sent me a text that simply read, “Are you trying to see how far you can push me?”
Donna may have a point. Nothing turns me on more then seeing the fire in my girl’s eyes knowing that I’m in trouble. Am I masochist? Definitely. But why?
Probably for several reasons, all of which if I admit them here on my blog, I’m sure to get in trouble for it later tonight. But we all know that’s not really a bad thing in my twisted brain.
So here it goes. I do like to push her limits sometimes because:
I’m an insecure little brat some times and I need to know she cares enough to put me in my place.
I think she looks fucking hot as hell when she’s pissed off at me.
The sex is nothing less then mind-blowing after a night spent on an emotional roller coaster. Actually, it’s even better while you’re still taking the ride. Sex is always better when traveling at high speeds …. you can take that figuratively and metaphorically. They both apply here.
But when all is said and done, I also know that I can usually get myself out of it if I ended up digging myself in a little deeper then I had meant to. How? Well there’s always the super innocent, “Who me?” thing I do so well. Followed by batting long, curled eyelashes, licking and then biting the lower lip a bit. (That’s way sexier in person) Then some passionate making out that leads to that hot sex I was talking about earlier.
When all else fails there’s always begging and swearing to never do it again. But we both know that won’t last too long.
When all is said and done, I am more then a handful, as a few commenters have mentioned (not always in such a nice way). But Remi knew full well what she was getting into. She even read my warning label. Several times to be exact. So she knew what she was getting into and she wanted me anyway.
At least she’ll never be bored and I’ll never be in dire need of a spanking. She’s got that covered. 
OMG woman.. I just commented on this exact same thing! this is what I posted about the night you got into trouble. If you get into the whole naughty subbie thing.. perhaps you two should try something a little harder? perhaps some spanking and binding???
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ok since this has been resolved I dont have much to comment but this… Sash… if you have been the bottom/femme/sub in the relationship in the past.. perhaps its time for the 2 of you to do some experimenting.. ok.. so I do have experience in this realm of BDSM.. when it comes to power play.. even in non bdsm relationships.. a time of change and growth is always good.. perhaps you should.. take her to a public one stall bathroom and make the first move.. let her assume control after that.. it lets you stretch your wings so to speak.. then .. it also makes her feel comfortable in her natural space.. also.. what top wouldnt love to come home to a candle lit dinner with their favorite femme wearing only a smile… or even better their hat and tie.. something fun like that.. I guess in short.. I know the situation has been resolved.. but I think it would be awesome for the two of you to do some role reversal.. even if it ends with her being the top again.. it may put some thrill between the sheets.
LMAO!!! Melody, if it gets any rougher I’m gonna end up in the ER! Let’s just put it this way. we ACTUALLY have a safe word!
oh you DO?! COOL! I want to come party at your house!!
Holy shite woman! You just get hotter and hotter. Keep it coming lady. You’re my idol.
You have a SAFE WORD????? OMG WOMAN. Marry me.
God you do sound like a little brat. But I see why Remi puts up with you. I would too. Remember that.
I have to say Miss Sasha that I’ve had a crush on you from the wings for a while. But you got with Remi and I thought my chance had slipped away. But now that I find out that you’re such a FREAK (as queen put it) that you need a safe word!? Good Lord Woman, I’d be willing to go head to head with Remi for a chance at that!!! Dammmmmnnnnnnnnnn girl. Can I get with that?
Hey ‘LuvaBoi’ I’m curious, do you know Sasha personally? Because if you do then you should definitely know that I could take you ‘head to head’;) You think Sasha loves me because I’m weak? There is a reason she’s still with me with all the offers she gets on a daily basis just from people reading this blog, let alone people we encounter with a night out!! As for ‘Queen’, I get to see more of Sasha then you ever did;) I don’t usually comment but it had to be said.
Yea I do know her. Maybe I should get to know her better?
Hey LuvaBoi, now I don’t want to start any problems here. You DO know that I’m with Remi and that she DOES read my blog and the comments people leave. However, you’ve got both of us curious. Do I really know you? From where? Who are you? I don’t recognize your email.
Safe Words can’t save you all the time
Wow this blog brought out all the crazies!!!!! I know the people don’t know the stories behind some of these people that leave comments. I’ve heard all about Ocean, you mother fucker!!!! Sorry if anyone else doesn’t like my comment but Ocean is a violent abusive ass whole that’s gonna get what’s coming to him. I’m never going to let you put a hand on Sasha again!!!!
WTF is going on here Sasha? Are you ok? Who’s Ocean and who’s LuvaBoi? Come on people don’t be cowards, tell us who you are.
I think I undertand here. As much as we talk about balance and equality and all the rest..it’s lovely to have sex where it doesn’t involve thought and politics and simply what you enjoy with the person you love absolutely (or um..just fancy and like rather a lot
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I’d much rather have a handful than someone willing and complacent. Life has so many dull aspects, why should our partner be one of them?
LMAO really ? who does that? I mean, don’t you live with sasha? are you so insecure you have to read her blog and defend your relationship? How strong you are? blah blah blah i’m goona puke (GOON was intentional) or maybe just punch myself in the face. dude seriously? wtf is your problem? you’re just bitter because yes you do see much more of her than i ever did but who did SHE WANT to see? you’re mad at me because the only reason she’s with you is because I didn’t want to go out with her…DUH? do you really want to go there? (sorry sasha but i just had to comment) ….on a lighter note just to comment to people on here without an ulterior motive I LOVED THE COMMENT FROM….ANONYMOUS “Come on people don’t be cowards, tell us who you are” LMFAO
OMG I totally agree lala!
As for those who are making what can be considered Internet stalking comments.. Please keep this in mind.. your IP can be pulled and you CAN be reported to the cops. The very least that could happen is that you get banned from your ISP for life. Internet Stalking is a very real crime and can be prosecuted.
hahaha… I loved this post. and wow… the comments got a little crazy… but i guess that’s just the lesbian way lol. We’re all a little crazy at heart. But yeah my ex used to ‘push’ me sooo so sooooo far… and then just look at me with those puppy dog eyes and the ‘who me?’ look. lol… worked everytime. well… not everytime… or maybe we’d still be together lol.
LOLOL That’s Sgt. Bitch to you Queen!!!
Oh wow Sasha, what the hell is going on? Are you ok? What’s up with all the angry people on your blog? LMAO, you must be pretty hot in the sack for people to act like this after they’ve had you. What’s your secret?
Not to be stalker like here or anything, (like some other commenters) but in all seriousness, if you ever need to be treated like a princess I’m the one for you. I’m a successful lawyer here in LA. I’m 37 yrs old, butch and I know how to take care of a woman. Even a woman like you. Call or email me. You’ve got my number. Let’s meet for drinks at least and be friends.
Hey Sgt. Bitch, I know Sasha better than you know. No I haven’t slept with her …. yet. But that’ll change soon enough. All I have to do is wait for the right time and you’re sure to push her into my arms. She’s pretty easy to push if you haven’t noticed. See? I do know her.
girl… drma just follows you… that cool thow cuz…. I LIKE IT!!! =) makes it all the more entertaning
Wow! I just ran across this blog. I notices someone used my name to make a strange comment on Feb 4. It wasn’t me. Some asshole trying to cause trouble. Whoever did that is low.
I wish only the best for this couple and hope I NEVER run into Remi. She sounds perfect for you. Good luck and god bless.
P.S. The blog is fucking brilliant. Congrats.
that’s hot!
Oh god you just get better and better. First I find out you don’t even go to beauty salons ever (a miracle considering how femme you are) and now this ….. *biting lip to the point it hurts because I know you have a gf*