Comments on: Confessions of a Pillow Princess http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess The raw, unedited adventures of a femme lesbian and her friends. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 07:45:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-457872 Jazmenha Mon, 16 Jan 2012 07:47:46 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-457872 These comments remind me of how heartless and meanspirited people can be. OMG slapping a women is NEVER fucking ok! Never! I do not care if you are a woman hitting another woman or a man hitting a woman that is fucking disrespectful. Sex is a gift. It is a treasure. It is not someones to take, to expect, to require or get slapped. Disrespecting butch women, or anyone for that matter, is not acceptable. Disrespecting Sasha is absolutely unacceptable. I know this is a very old post, but I am just so fucking done with how poorly people treat eachother and am very discouraged at what I see/read/know/learn about the world around me lately! It's just not right and frankly it's just too much for me... When will people return to kindness????? These comments remind me of how heartless and meanspirited people can be. OMG slapping a women is NEVER fucking ok! Never! I do not care if you are a woman hitting another woman or a man hitting a woman that is fucking disrespectful. Sex is a gift. It is a treasure. It is not someones to take, to expect, to require or get slapped.
Disrespecting butch women, or anyone for that matter, is not acceptable.
Disrespecting Sasha is absolutely unacceptable.
I know this is a very old post, but I am just so fucking done with how poorly people treat eachother and am very discouraged at what I see/read/know/learn about the world around me lately! It’s just not right and frankly it’s just too much for me… When will people return to kindness?????

]]> By: stuccobill http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-280375 stuccobill Thu, 20 Oct 2011 11:22:12 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-280375 As if you haven't already been kicked around enough, here comes a man to let you know that it is not enough, for me, for you just to let me have sex with you. the plumbing refuses to work if i do not have some kind of connection with you. every woman with whom i have had sex has left with a piece of my heart, some larger than others. As if you haven’t already been kicked around enough, here comes a man to let you know that it is not enough, for me, for you just to let me have sex with you. the plumbing refuses to work if i do not have some kind of connection with you. every woman with whom i have had sex has left with a piece of my heart, some larger than others.

]]> By: nearstar http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-190816 nearstar Sat, 30 Jul 2011 13:43:46 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-190816 My god, Sapph, don't you think you're worth more than that? Are you really the desperate loser you sound like? My god, Sapph, don’t you think you’re worth more than that? Are you really the desperate loser you sound like?

]]> By: Charisse http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-181845 Charisse Fri, 22 Jul 2011 19:44:06 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-181845 DUDE, are you ME?!?! I have had those same thoughts. My wife is a *BIT* butchier than me. I am kind of a pretty pretty princess. And I occasionally think that same exact thing. Rather than hurt her feelings by not returning the "favor" isn't it just better for nothing to happen at all. And, like you, I was told that that logic was just dumb and I was absolutely wrong. DUDE, are you ME?!?! I have had those same thoughts. My wife is a *BIT* butchier than me. I am kind of a pretty pretty princess. And I occasionally think that same exact thing. Rather than hurt her feelings by not returning the “favor” isn’t it just better for nothing to happen at all. And, like you, I was told that that logic was just dumb and I was absolutely wrong.

]]> By: Akabrutuslol http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-142883 Akabrutuslol Sat, 21 May 2011 12:30:42 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-142883 I just came upon this blog this morning ... funny and interesting. Initially, I was looking for a definition of "aggressor" female. I like being aggressive in bed and OF COURSE I want to please my partner in ALL aspects of the relationship. But I also like the idea of my girl wanting to turn me on and wanting to please me as well. I thought that's what "relationships" were supposed to be about. And trust I'm not living in a fairy tale, I've really experienced this. That being said, I have to say Sarah hit the mark for me. Reciprocity babygirlz should be where you want to be. Don"t really get all this one sidedness. You can order toyz online to pls yoruself and toss it in the drawer when you are done... why bother bringing someoneelse into it. I just came upon this blog this morning … funny and interesting. Initially, I was looking for a definition of “aggressor” female. I like being aggressive in bed and OF COURSE I want to please my partner in ALL aspects of the relationship. But I also like the idea of my girl wanting to turn me on and wanting to please me as well. I thought that’s what “relationships” were supposed to be about. And trust I’m not living in a fairy tale, I’ve really experienced this. That being said, I have to say Sarah hit the mark for me. Reciprocity babygirlz should be where you want to be. Don”t really get all this one sidedness. You can order toyz online to pls yoruself and toss it in the drawer when you are done… why bother bringing someoneelse into it.

]]> By: Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-92622 Jazmenha Sun, 12 Dec 2010 23:35:13 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-92622 @ Elegy my "lol" after their names was NOT laughing funny it was representing my head spinning/are you kidding me/WTF are people thinking... @ Elegy my “lol” after their names was NOT laughing funny it was representing my head spinning/are you kidding me/WTF are people thinking…

]]> By: Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-92621 Jazmenha Sun, 12 Dec 2010 23:31:48 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-92621 @ Elegy- Yeah me too and of course once again Raye was protecting the reputations of REAL butches who are good people and who are of upstanding character such as hers. Elegy what was up with the comments from Carrie and Dwag lol WTF was their problems??? Yeah this was a VERY old post so it's all in the past. :) @ Femmelover- Hi! Thanks for the holiday wishes-sorry took so long to reply. Hope all is well. I know you would have been right there with Raye in representing/defending all the butches of good character that are in this crazy world. Happy Holidays. @ Elegy- Yeah me too and of course once again Raye was protecting the reputations of REAL butches who are good people and who are of upstanding character such as hers. Elegy what was up with the comments from Carrie and Dwag lol WTF was their problems??? Yeah this was a VERY old post so it’s all in the past. :)
@ Femmelover- Hi! Thanks for the holiday wishes-sorry took so long to reply. Hope all is well. I know you would have been right there with Raye in representing/defending all the butches of good character that are in this crazy world. Happy Holidays.

]]> By: Elegy http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-92619 Elegy Sun, 12 Dec 2010 23:23:36 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-92619 Yeah, I've read them about 3 times now, and I'm going through on my fourth time. I try to not let them get to me, and two years does take the sting out of it for me. I try and focus on all the *real* people- butches, femmes, women who told those abusive asses where they could stick their heads. Yeah, I’ve read them about 3 times now, and I’m going through on my fourth time. I try to not let them get to me, and two years does take the sting out of it for me. I try and focus on all the *real* people- butches, femmes, women who told those abusive asses where they could stick their heads.

]]> By: Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-92617 Jazmenha Sun, 12 Dec 2010 23:15:44 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-92617 @ Elegy- Hi girl! Weren't some of these comments horrible! OMG I can not believe how some of the commenters were thinking and addressing Sasha here it was horribly disrespectful. @ Elegy- Hi girl! Weren’t some of these comments horrible! OMG I can not believe how some of the commenters were thinking and addressing Sasha here it was horribly disrespectful.

]]> By: Elegy http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-92607 Elegy Sun, 12 Dec 2010 22:50:33 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-92607 "Power bottom" is still my favorite term. >.> “Power bottom” is still my favorite term. >.>

]]> By: Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-92453 Jazmenha Sun, 12 Dec 2010 10:13:54 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-92453 It was beyond shocking/disappointing to read all the comments about how you "should have been hit"- "that a butch would have hit you for saying that" and the comments about "being a lazy lesbian". WTF (a thousand times WTF!!!!!!!) was is up with all that being written to you????? Again, I know this was a much older post, but the title caught my eye and some of the comments made me sick. It was beyond shocking/disappointing to read all the comments about how you “should have been hit”- “that a butch would have hit you for saying that” and the comments about “being a lazy lesbian”. WTF (a thousand times WTF!!!!!!!) was is up with all that being written to you????? Again, I know this was a much older post, but the title caught my eye and some of the comments made me sick.

]]> By: Jazmenha http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-92448 Jazmenha Sun, 12 Dec 2010 10:01:39 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-92448 I know this is a old post but the blog title looked interesting so I decided to read it.....wow interesting/intense comments. hummm Sasha admire your honesty, openness and bravery to write what you were really thinking/going through at the time. I know this is a old post but the blog title looked interesting so I decided to read it…..wow interesting/intense comments. hummm
Sasha admire your honesty, openness and bravery to write what you were really thinking/going through at the time.

]]> By: Sapph http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-70583 Sapph Mon, 20 Sep 2010 12:19:38 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-70583 I have my own lazy and selfish lesbian at home. that she's a lesbian and I am too is not the problem of course, its different sexdrives and me wondering what the hell it is with lesbians these days. Are they all that lazy and selfish. This is girlfriend nr 4 in 12 years that does not take any initiative, keeps me hanging when the phone rings or is tired every bloody day! I wish I was straght Maybe I'd get more than a fuck a year I have my own lazy and selfish lesbian at home. that she’s a lesbian and I am too is not the problem of course, its different sexdrives and me wondering what the hell it is with lesbians these days. Are they all that lazy and selfish. This is girlfriend nr 4 in 12 years that does not take any initiative, keeps me hanging when the phone rings or is tired every bloody day! I wish I was straght Maybe I’d get more than a fuck a year

]]> By: Arthur Mboue http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-67988 Arthur Mboue Tue, 07 Sep 2010 20:16:51 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-67988 If a woman eats you. You must eat her.T that what the G people do. OR. Come back to us, This time, men will expect more of you Arthur Mboue If a woman eats you. You must eat her.T that what the G people do. OR. Come back to us, This time, men will expect more of you
Arthur Mboue

]]> By: Rexie http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-61806 Rexie Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:45:56 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-61806 Go Raye! Go Raye!

]]> By: Raye http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-61713 Raye Thu, 29 Jul 2010 10:49:26 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-61713 Hey dumbass I hate to break it to you but that is YOUR opinion. Some of us butchies LIKE pillow princesses. Why the fuck do lesbians think they have the right to judge other lesbians as to how lesbian they are?? Who made YOU the Queen of Lesbos?? Wow I rarely say this to another woman but shut the fuck up. Seriously. Hey dumbass I hate to break it to you but that is YOUR opinion. Some of us butchies LIKE pillow princesses. Why the fuck do lesbians think they have the right to judge other lesbians as to how lesbian they are?? Who made YOU the Queen of Lesbos?? Wow I rarely say this to another woman but shut the fuck up. Seriously.

]]> By: you'reapillowp http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-61709 you'reapillowp Thu, 29 Jul 2010 09:21:32 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-61709 sorry to break it to you, but that sucks. i've been in your girlfriend's shoes. date men, honey, you sound like a lazy lez. sorry to break it to you, but that sucks. i’ve been in your girlfriend’s shoes. date men, honey, you sound like a lazy lez.

]]> By: Raye http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-54431 Raye Sun, 11 Apr 2010 13:32:40 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-54431 ahh... the blog that sucked me into your world via google. I had a little more time to read through all the comments on this one and I just wanted to say that I am a butch and I may tend to brag about my mechanical skills and sexual prowess (actually my femme gf does the bragging about that) but I NEVER hit women in anger and I have rarely even defended myself when a femme was hitting ME. I think those women who say that about butch women have not found women at all but little bois who have something to prove. I find it rather offensive that they accuse ALL butches of abuse especially since I still have the pictures of the bloody, black, purple, and blue marks on my body stored away in a file I don't look at but keep for insurance purposes. I also know several other butchies who don't hit either... in fact NONE of the butchies I know hit women. ahh… the blog that sucked me into your world via google. I had a little more time to read through all the comments on this one and I just wanted to say that I am a butch and I may tend to brag about my mechanical skills and sexual prowess (actually my femme gf does the bragging about that) but I NEVER hit women in anger and I have rarely even defended myself when a femme was hitting ME. I think those women who say that about butch women have not found women at all but little bois who have something to prove. I find it rather offensive that they accuse ALL butches of abuse especially since I still have the pictures of the bloody, black, purple, and blue marks on my body stored away in a file I don’t look at but keep for insurance purposes. I also know several other butchies who don’t hit either… in fact NONE of the butchies I know hit women.

]]> By: she http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-53708 she Sun, 04 Apr 2010 12:51:14 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-53708 well.. I'm sure you will hate me for this.. but.. I'm totally straight.. the thought of one of my girlfriends going down on me makes me even nauseous.. but I love sex.. and the give and take.. the one thing that we have in common is that if you do it all the time it gets old.. so my advice that is across the board.. don't make it chore that you owe each other.. the more u deny, the better it will be when you have it.. and then neither of you will be tired.. you will be ignighted.. :) Best regards.. Your straight gerlfriend! well.. I’m sure you will hate me for this.. but.. I’m totally straight.. the thought of one of my girlfriends going down on me makes me even nauseous.. but I love sex.. and the give and take.. the one thing that we have in common is that if you do it all the time it gets old.. so my advice that is across the board.. don’t make it chore that you owe each other.. the more u deny, the better it will be when you have it.. and then neither of you will be tired.. you will be ignighted.. :)

Best regards..
Your straight gerlfriend!

]]> By: H http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/http:/cardcarryinglesbian.com/butch-femme/confessions-of-a-pillow-princess#comment-51596 H Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:57:13 +0000 http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/?p=486#comment-51596 :( Oh man! You are not a pillow princess... Two days? That's nothing. I have been with someone that the only time we had sex is if I was doing things to her, it happened about once a month and she never reciprocated... Now I am in a relationship with a butchie... It's really nice because pleasing me is more fun for her than me pleasing her... BUT! She has been telling me she is tired a lot and I can't figure out what is going on... It use to be every day, then every other day, then every three days, then once a week, and now once every two weeks... She just says she's tired... I don't know what I am doing wrong and she gets mad when I try to talk to her about it. I am up for anything and more than willing to please her... I just don't want to start falling onto old hang ups that my partner doesn't find me attractive.... :( Oh man! You are not a pillow princess… Two days? That’s nothing. I have been with someone that the only time we had sex is if I was doing things to her, it happened about once a month and she never reciprocated… Now I am in a relationship with a butchie… It’s really nice because pleasing me is more fun for her than me pleasing her… BUT! She has been telling me she is tired a lot and I can’t figure out what is going on… It use to be every day, then every other day, then every three days, then once a week, and now once every two weeks… She just says she’s tired… I don’t know what I am doing wrong and she gets mad when I try to talk to her about it. I am up for anything and more than willing to please her… I just don’t want to start falling onto old hang ups that my partner doesn’t find me attractive….

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