Comments on: With friends like that who needs enemies?

By: Nate

Nate — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 05:48:20 +0000

There are a lot of things I could say about you Sasha. I’ve been in your life for 12 years and you’ve been one of my truest friends. One thing I will say is that you do know how to be a friend, and a good one. If you didn’t how would you be able to count at least 5 friends that you’ve had for 21 years, 12, 10 and 9 years with these different people in your life?

Which tells me that, it was probably them more then you that ended this friendship. Although the Ex-whatever wrote that it probably could have been saved had it not been for your extreme reaction. I know you and I know that that “extreme” reaction was a LONG time coming. That person doesn’t know what they’re talking about.

Keep your head up beautiful. You’ve still got us. And you always will.

By: dink

dink — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 23:36:51 +0000

friendship shouldn’t be this difficult. life is too short so love the one you got.

i always wondered how people who always have short-term friendships manage to survive the turnover.

at least you can learn from her the type of friend you do not wish to be.

By: Sasha

Sasha — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 19:15:38 +0000

Ex-walking Awesome …. whoever you are, too bad you don’t have the guts to just say who you are, since you’re standing up for her. All I have to say, is that this was not one sided. I tried and tried as well. And that every time I saw her for as long as I can remember practically, it was all on HER terms.

Yet EVERY time I invited her to ANYTHING, which was quite a few times, she was always busy.

The last time I “flaked” on her as you say. Was me telling her that I couldn’t make it to Taco Tuesday in Huntington beach (which conveniently was 5 min from her work but 2 in half hours in traffic from where I was coming from) because we wouldn’t be able to get there until they were just about to leave and what was the point in that?

Not to mention that I had started classes again and I had class on THAT night. But I had told her that I was excited to see her for the party. And when it was canceled I sent her a text asking what had happened and was she ok. To which I NEVER heard another word from her.

So I figured that I would take her silence and the fact that she would only hang out when it was on HER terms, as a sign that the friendship was less then I had thought it was.

I guess we’re both just better off.

By: Ex-Walking Awesome

Ex-Walking Awesome — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 18:39:52 +0000

Ya know, if I didn’t know you or any of these girls I would say the same thing everyone else says. Screw em, you don’t need em, you’re better, blah blah. But, I do know how hard this friend of yours has tried and how much effort she has put into your friendship. Which, though I don’t know you THAT well, I do know that is quite the task and takes a lot of effort with someone like yourself.
I do agree with what you say about the “mean girls” whom you separated yourself from, but the rest of this blog is completely false. It makes me angry that you make this person look like such a shitty friend and a “mean” person when she isn’t. She’s just straight up- how many times can you disappoint someone before they start to lose faith in you? This person literally was broken hearted over the last time YOU flaked out on her. You paint a pretty picture playing the victim role in order to get attention from people who don’t know any better. And I believe that this situation may have been fixable, but your extreme and immature reaction to this has killed that possibility. And FYI- it wasn’t a fake cancellation. The party WAS cancelled, and then when it was back on, YOU just weren’t REinvited, because there probably would have been some reason why you wouldn’t show anyway.

By: CECILIA

CECILIA — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 06:19:22 +0000

he he he” i know the girls your talking about, and its not about there ass holes or not, its more about, “Well thats the end of that” kind of thing… dont waste your time on such People <——– not saying girls (me trying to be a good girl) yeah thous kind of chicks <—-(HA HA HA HA LOL!!! CANT HELP IT , IM AN ASS HOLE) dont even know that their like that, they are obliviose to the fact. I think thats just the way they are, but arnt we in a great socity that, that crowd is no longer the RULE THE SCHOOL crowd. The cool thing about that is, thouse people have NO IDEA that “hey we are the majority” and now your on OUR turff, and hey out here we call the shots and if we dont want to deal with your shit… hey! we dont have to. ….

By: NYKelly

NYKelly — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 23:03:38 +0000

Let me start by saying although I don’t know these girls.. i KNOW these girls and they’re narcissists so you KNOW they’re reading (Hi Girls!!!) LOL I can almost hear it now “do you BELIEVE she bloged about it” “omg LIKE tootaaally” “as IF” “ewwe my pumpkin is gooey! like GRODY!”

GIve me a break. Sash – you’re better off without these catty bitches in your life. I swear there ARE normal lesbians out there that don’t need to cut other people down to make themselves feel better. The only thing you can do is remove the toxic elements from your life, stay true to you and laugh at their petty bs…it just chalks up to jealousy anyway. Soon enough they’re going to realize that if they’re talking that way about other people, chances are they’re talking that way about EACH OTHER.. and that’s not a friend. When their boobs start to sag, they’re over run by the new hot “it” lesbian soriority and realize they’ve alieniated every true friend they had the opportunity of making, you and Remi can look back and laugh and feel sorry for them…I already do.

By: blueinthefaceangel

blueinthefaceangel — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 22:27:51 +0000

uggg. That sucks. well at least now you can find friends who are up front with you!

By: Cat

Cat — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 07:17:33 +0000

I hate to break it to you, but I always thought from reading your blog that you were one of those ‘Mean Girls’. Like a cheerleader in highschool, only hung out with other pretty girls. I read your blog and you’ve done some pretty horrible things yourself.

But maybe you’ve matured and you’re not like that anymore or maybe you never were and I’m assuming too much. Whatever the case is, they sounded like useless friends to have anyway.

By: Alex

Alex — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 07:15:05 +0000

I don’t know why you even bothered with those people. I’ve known you for almost 8 years now and I’ve never known you to be catty. Bitchy?? well sometimes … let’s just say you can definitely give as good as you get.

By: Julie

Julie — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 17:25:07 +0000

Fake cancelling something is the lowest of the low. They should have had the guts to just not invite you. You’re well rid of them I think.