Comments on: Leabian Hanky Code

By: femmgeekdummergrrrl

femmgeekdummergrrrl — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:41:39 +0000

I can’t remember shit most of the time. I think a hanky code app would be perfect….

By: go.girl.magazine » Blog Archive » In love with…bandanas

go.girl.magazine » Blog Archive » In love with…bandanas — Sat, 07 May 2011 10:09:35 +0000

[...] much easier. If that’s too cheesy for you, but you’re into the lesbian night scene, use the bandana code to help find a friend or two for the evening. Just remember to keep yourself [...]

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By: Jazmenha

Jazmenha — Tue, 26 Oct 2010 23:23:02 +0000

This is too many colors for me to remember. LOL I would have to carry the Hanky Code in the form of one of those Kelly Paint Store color charts with me. LOL
@Sasha Just curious – asking for fun- since you posted this in May 2009 have your chosen colors for you and Remi changed?

By: Elegy

Elegy — Tue, 26 Oct 2010 07:45:35 +0000

I like the hanky code, but I don’t wear things that have back pockets most of the time. ._.

By: Now I'm even more confused.

Now I'm even more confused. — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 17:10:21 +0000

I was just trying to figure out if I was missing something, cause my wife, who does ware a questionably short hair cut and dresses often with a mans sleeveless T-shirt, always seems to attract women that fit the lesbian profile. I was just hoping to see if she might be keeping a little secret from me. I don’t mind, I just hate the idea of being left in the dark and made a fool of. I’ve seen and witnessed many tell tell signs in the past, but just figured it was youthful curiosity. Many of her friends could have been seen as those that might go both ways, though when asked, she would comment, at least to me, as if such things were discusting. Yet, whenever we go into a large store, she’ll often get approuched by an apparent lesbian and either flirted with or asked if she needs any help with anything. I can’t help but feel that I’ve possibly been being played. Can anyone help to clue me in, as to what to watch for. I’d like to have a partner that is more honest and opened with me than that, if there is this type of game playing going on.

By: Velvet

Velvet — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:58:35 +0000

the hanky code is coming back! check this site out: hankycode.etsy.com.

By: orleans

orleans — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 23:05:31 +0000

This is pretty popular in Portland, Oregon’s queer community

By: Sasha

Sasha — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 22:15:36 +0000

Do people actually do this??? Well I know that the gay boys started this back in the day and it’s not super popular among lesbians now days, however the inspiration for this blog happened when I saw several very butch women “flaggin” at the clubs. Maybe it was just a fashion statement? Maybe it was just my hopeful imagination that made me think they were looking for a good time?

But yes, some people do actually do this, mostly in the BDSM scene though, I think.

By: Glasgow Lesbian

Glasgow Lesbian — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 21:21:42 +0000

Do people actually do this, never seen anyone with a hanky other than a paper one in scotland ! x

By: edie

edie — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 09:02:41 +0000

hmm. i thought the hanky code is only for gay men?!

if not… damn! last few times i saw a hot butch girl with her bandanas, but she had hers at various spots (like pocket, around the neck, on wrist)… and what colour they were.

By: Sparkplug

Sparkplug — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 23:37:55 +0000

here:
http://www.the-px.com/flagging.htm

It’s not a LESBIAN hanky code, it’s just A hanky code. Gay men started it long long ago. Now a days, even heteros use it. The colours are pretty consistent regardless of gender or attraction.
Also, other subcultures want in on the act:
http://www.sepulchritude.com/suffer/volumetwo/wordwhores.html

Imagine a Granny Hanky Code. What’s the code for “pinches cheeks”?

By: Pedley

Pedley — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 05:10:42 +0000

Here in Philly, some wear them just because. Oh, and Color doesn’t signify anything. P.S. It’s been 10 L-o-n-g Days. When will you blog again. You’re an everyday addiction !

By: Chase

Chase — Thu, 28 May 2009 05:26:38 +0000

Hmmm, I have never seen this before. Maybe this is more of an LA thing? I need to go out and do some research

By: laura

laura — Thu, 28 May 2009 03:48:06 +0000

oh shit, who knew that bandanas meant anything? i usually go with a black one in my right pocket, but it actually means “i’m left handed so my wallet’s in my left pocket so this guy’s gotta go on the right and i just like black bandanas.”

By: Maggie

Maggie — Thu, 28 May 2009 03:24:55 +0000

Allow me to recount the colors I have in my closet and see what said colors reveal about my sexual proclivities:
Black, Grey, Charcoal, Blue Robin’s Egg, Blue Navy, Dark Red, Light Pink… In short, I’m a whore up for anything. Yeah, that’s about right

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 28 May 2009 02:41:49 +0000

I’ve seen a few women do this at clubs, usually butch women. But how do i know they’re flaggin and not just making a fashion statement?

By: FemmeLA

FemmeLA — Thu, 28 May 2009 02:40:38 +0000

I can always count on you to bring me the perversity of lesbian culture. Does anyone really do this?

By: LB Boi

LB Boi — Wed, 27 May 2009 23:29:34 +0000

What about wearing your keys in your front pocket? i heard if you wear it in your front left pocket you’re looking to take someone home. If in your right, you’re looking to be taken back to someone’s home. Or something like that.