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	<title>Comments on: Lesbians Don’t Nag</title>
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		<title>By: zoe</title>
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		<dc:creator>zoe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 13:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i nag.n im a lesbo.but so hell what?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i nag.n im a lesbo.but so hell what?</p>
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		<title>By: p</title>
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		<dc:creator>p</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 00:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the word you&#039;re looking for here is &quot;heteronormative&quot; meaning pretending to be straight.  It&#039;s just a division of labor.  In the end, though, it sounds like perhaps you ought to add some regular chores to her list as well, perhaps doing her own damn laundry!  That would lessen your workload considerably, wouldn&#039;t it:?  

And a policy of &quot;you cook and I clean&quot; or vice versa works well.  My wife seemed to think that she could con me into doing every single dish--well, in that case I started cooking less and less and less, and in the end I just couldn&#039;t take it anymore because the weeds in the backyard were taller than me, and she had absolutely no interest whatsoever in getting a job.

So long as she is paying for the utilities I think it&#039;s a fair trade.  If not just slack off yourself for week and see how quickly the trees get trimmed!  voila!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the word you&#8217;re looking for here is &#8220;heteronormative&#8221; meaning pretending to be straight.  It&#8217;s just a division of labor.  In the end, though, it sounds like perhaps you ought to add some regular chores to her list as well, perhaps doing her own damn laundry!  That would lessen your workload considerably, wouldn&#8217;t it:?  </p>
<p>And a policy of &#8220;you cook and I clean&#8221; or vice versa works well.  My wife seemed to think that she could con me into doing every single dish&#8211;well, in that case I started cooking less and less and less, and in the end I just couldn&#8217;t take it anymore because the weeds in the backyard were taller than me, and she had absolutely no interest whatsoever in getting a job.</p>
<p>So long as she is paying for the utilities I think it&#8217;s a fair trade.  If not just slack off yourself for week and see how quickly the trees get trimmed!  voila!</p>
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		<title>By: Femme</title>
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		<dc:creator>Femme</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 00:25:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s nothing stereotypical about the Butch/femme dynamic. Period. It&#039;s a lesbian relationship and that alone blows in the face of a male hierarchy. 

Let Sasha be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s nothing stereotypical about the Butch/femme dynamic. Period. It&#8217;s a lesbian relationship and that alone blows in the face of a male hierarchy. </p>
<p>Let Sasha be.</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 21:32:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Looks like you and Remi are living by some pretty stereo-typical gender norms. She does the yard work, you do the housework. She goes off to work while you’re a good little wifey, washing her dirty clothes?&quot;

So?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Looks like you and Remi are living by some pretty stereo-typical gender norms. She does the yard work, you do the housework. She goes off to work while you’re a good little wifey, washing her dirty clothes?&#8221;</p>
<p>So?</p>
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		<title>By: Feminist Dyke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Feminist Dyke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:17:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Looks like you and Remi are living by some pretty stereo-typical gender norms. She does the yard work, you do the housework. She goes off to work while you&#039;re a good little wifey, washing her dirty clothes? 

Whatever works for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looks like you and Remi are living by some pretty stereo-typical gender norms. She does the yard work, you do the housework. She goes off to work while you&#8217;re a good little wifey, washing her dirty clothes? </p>
<p>Whatever works for you.</p>
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		<title>By: LB Chic</title>
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		<dc:creator>LB Chic</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:16:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hear you on this one, my butch is great with bringing home the bacon but then in her eyes, cooking it is up to me, along with any other &quot;woman&#039;s work&quot; she thinks falls to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hear you on this one, my butch is great with bringing home the bacon but then in her eyes, cooking it is up to me, along with any other &#8220;woman&#8217;s work&#8221; she thinks falls to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Sammy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sammy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;penis-cursed counterpart&quot;??!!! LMFAO</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;penis-cursed counterpart&#8221;??!!! LMFAO</p>
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