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	<title>Card Carrying Lesbian ... What&#039;s in your wallet? &#187; butch/femme dynamic</title>
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		<title>Butch, Tomboi, Boi ????</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 20:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she&#8217;s the &#8220;butch&#8221; in the relationship &#8230; duhhhh &#8230;.. but she doesn&#8217;t identify as butch. I don&#8217;t get it. I think butch is less of a fashion statement and more of an attitude and a way you approach life. So instead of writing about it, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dear Femmes &#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 16:58:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Written by Guest Butch, Raye It is easy for all of you gorgeous femme lesbians to say that we should gather the fortitude to approach you in the Wal-Mart. However, what you don&#8217;t understand is that we butchies endure constant blows to our egos everywhere we turn. The last thing we need to do for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You Write It, They Will Come</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:39:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was pleasantly surprised when not one, not two, but several butch writers responded to my call for the “Write Butch.” I have felt for a long time that there is not enough information, education and general acceptance of the butch dynamic here in LA and probably in other parts of the country as well. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When you realize you’re a lesbian &#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 22:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m in a constant state of awe at my total lack of self-awareness as far as figuring out I was a lesbian. I mean really, how could I not have figured out I was gay before the age of 24!? I mean I could understand if I was bi. But I’m not. I’m just gay, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Lesbian Housewives</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 22:14:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m sure some of you have seen some of the comments a few readers have left me, indecent proposals I suppose. If I were single I’d be flattered, maybe a little worried since some of them have a bit of a stalker feel to them. But still flattering non the less. Let’s take a look [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Butch/Femme relationships versus lesbian relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 00:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now before you go and bite my head off yelling at me that butch/femme relationships are lesbian relationships let me tell you that I am well aware of that fact. Having been involved in a butch/femme dynamic I am still reeling from the stark differences between what it’s like to date a butch and what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Passive Butch vs. Aggressive Femme</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I thought that when I started dating butch women that things would be easier, clearer in some ways. That perhaps some semblance of psuedo-gender roles might be in place, making it easier to navigate through the single scene if I knew who did what when. But no such luck. Not only does it not clarify [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do you choose the femme identity or does it choose you?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 09:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was looking on Amazon for a book about the butch/femme dynamic and I saw a book called “Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity” and I was struck by something a reviewer wrote. What she said that caught my attention was: “My femme friends who are also in their 30&#8242;s and I have discussed whether or not [...]]]></description>
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