I think the still frame of this vlog totally looks like I’m about to say something like, “And then she pulled out a dildo that was THIS BIG!”
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I think you’re gorgeous Sasha! If I was into femmes, I’d marry you
I really like your videos, Sasha, they show your personality and I think you seems way more insecure then I would have thought someone like you would be. Not that thats a bad thing, it’s not. It actually makes me feel better to know that just because someone’s beautiful doesn’t mean they realize it or feel like it all the time.
Hey Sasha, loved the earthquake proof metaphor. You’re really cute.
I love you with your hair up Sashi, it makes your eyes shine even more then usual.
Keep up the good work beautiful.
I think that you’re smart to drop the whole marriage thing. If she doesn’t want that kind of commitment from you right now, it could work out for your benifit as well. You might meet someone who’s even better for you and if you’re not married then it would be easier. If you are married, you automatically turn that part of you off and people can read that.
Soooooo look at it as a blessing in disguise. She doesn’t want that kind of commitmment but there will be someone else that will.
I’m just really curious what you are? My friend and I are huge fans of your blog and we both think you’re smokin hot. But we have a bet going on as to your cultural background.
I think you’re French and Italian. She thinks you’re part Persian or Lebonese.
I know your name is your pen name but it is French (Lotrian, right?) sooooo …. what are you???
Sasha,
I’m sure this post took a lot of courage; I can’t imagine having to make that sort of public clarification after a blog post!
For what it’s worth, you’re entitled to feel the way that you do, and no one should tell you it’s right or wrong. And the same with her. And even if two people can want different things in a relationship, that doesn’t mean it can’t work out.
Peace.
It is ok to feel the way you feel, and I’m glad you and Remi can talk about it. You should always be ok with whAt you want. U just still have to be ok with Remis idea of what she wants too, for now!
Don’t worry everyone, when I said I’d drop the whole marriage idea … I wasn’t kidding.
Consider it dropped.
Fini.
Over.
No mas.
Finito.
Done.
Sasha this kinda reminds me of when Sarah and I were first together and neither of us wanted to say the word “Love” in reference to the other because we were worried about saying it before we really knew we felt it. And the implications of cheapening those words fell heavy on our minds since we had both been burned before and thought we had loved someone else. But the truth is that the subject of love or marriage/commitment is one that people come to individually not collectively. So rather than say you are dropping the idea of marriage or the hope of marriage, you should probably look at it as having expressed your readiness and wait for her to reach the same conclusion while enjoying your relationship in the meantime. Because pressing the issue before someone is ready seldom ends up with the result you want. And even if you end up on a different path in the end, you will not have “wasted your time” because this relationship made you learn and grow in preparation for whatever happens in the future. I think you will find that letting her choose when she is ready without pressure will do more to make her ready sooner.
Oh and by the way…
The first time I said it, I blurted out “I love you!” to Sarah in a Blockbuster Video store by accident after she made a joke I found particularly funny. I didn’t say it again until we were decorating the Christmas tree together months later… but I meant it.
I seriously love you Sasha. You’re so sexy and beautiful. I swear I’ve seen you and Remi in LBC, by the Library. You’re really tall.
You guys make a cute couple but if you’re ever single again, I’ll try to get the nerve up to say hi next time.
I’ve never commented before, though I read your blog every day you post something new. I have to say something now and tell you that I think you’re really amazing and talented and intelligent and amazingly beautiful. If someone isn’t ready to make a serious commitment to you then their crazy. Because if I had someone like you that loved me like you lover Remi, better believe that I’d lock you in with a ring! Hell if I even thought there was a chance you’d say yes, I’d go balls to the wall and try. But here you are, showing the whole god damned world your bleeding heart on your sleeve and what does she do about it? Well nothing from it sounds like but let you flail around like a little dying fish out of water when she could do something to save you, to help you, to make you feel loved like you make her feel. My god, if a woman ever exposed herself to the whole fucking world like you have, about loving me like that, I’d do anything in my power to keep her and to show the world right back, that she was loved too.
I’m with someone else that said this might be a blessing in disguise. Trust me when i say, someone will marry you and you won’t have to wait around years either.
It’s really nice of Remi to keep you on the market for the rest of us. Tell her we (as in every single butch or boi that digs a hot femme) yea … tell her we all say thank you. Keep up the good work.
I know you personally Sasha and if you look at my email you’ll realize who this is.
But this comment is for Remi …. if you knew Sasha before you made her fall in love with you, you would never think that this girl would be wanting to get hitched. The fact that she does makes me wonder who the fuck you are and what you’ve got thats so great and can you bottle that shit? Because she used to go through women like most people go through Starbucks latte’s ….. if she showed how much she loves you and wants to commit to you in the most real way she can, in front of the entire world wide web, and you just leave her hanging, well …. I know her well enough to tell you that she probably going to read a lot into it and think you actually leaving her is the next step and one thing I learned about Sasha is that she’s the Queen of pre-emptive strikes. Like whoa … she hits you upside the head with one of her pre-emptive strikes and after you regain consciousness (metaphorically speaking) you’ll look around and wonder what the hell just happened.
Yea ummm …. good luck with this whole thing.
Oh an watch out for danger signs. If she’s ever way too calm, be worried. When she’s emotional, she’s healthy. When she shuts you out or pretends everythings fine is when you should worry my friend.
How old are you? And what kind of makeup or face cream do you use? Your skin is perfect!!! And I wanna know what you are too. I’m voting French and Middle Eastern.
wow… lol it’s nice to know we are all so candidly honest with no ulterior motives in mind. Sometimes I hate our generation. When things get difficult in a relationship every single one of our so called friends tell us to jump ship. Heaven forbid we should support a couple and try to help them settle things like two people who love each other. Fuck man…. stop being so opportunistic and go find a single woman to hit on. Your “advice” is clearly not objective. I get so tired of the “I could love you better… blah blah blah…” bullshit everyone spews when the truth is that they probably have just as many assholish qualities that we all display from time to time… ick. If you are such a great lover where is YOUR girlfriend?
Sasha…..Im soooo glad you found Raye to blog on here. She stirs it up with honest opinions and its about freakin time!!
Hmmmm, if the point is to have an open relationship with no rules so that there is no rules to break, then setting 3 ground rules for Dinah Shore kind of go against that original purpose a little, right? But in any event, Rule #3 is very interesting and sounds like more hassle and headache. If there is love and trust between you and Remi, and if you’re both cool with rules #1 and #2 and have no concerns about following those, then what’s the point of Rule #3? If you need Rule #3, then maybe you’re not ready for the open relationship, just a thought. But it seems like things still need to be resolved. Good luck to both you, I hope it works out.
Notwithstanding that issue, Sasha, in terms of your long term future with Remi, actions always speak louder than words. If Remi is being good to you, and obviously she is invested in it, or she wouldn’t move in, then don’t complicate things old friend. True love is never defined by a piece of paper or a tax break. If one day marriage is a possibility, then obviously both of you should want to do it on your own accord, on your own terms. Don’t pressure her. I’m not saying don’t discuss it, but maybe wait until Remi’s ready to broach that topic again.
Good luck!
Why thank you Femme! Although I must say that I am not stirring things up intentionally. I’m just REALLY opinionated lol. and I guess kinda blunt huh?
sasha, i love your videos, you look like my big sister, it’s kinda funny…
i don’t want to say anything about the whole marriage thing cause it seems that remy does love you but is not completely sure about making that last step.
what i do want to say is something i noticed in this video, you seemed like you were just about to cry but were holding back, you seemed really sad, don’t be, you girls need to talk about it and not leave things hanging, don’t let miscommunication damage your relationship, you’ve said that it’s the best one so far, so fight for it…
keep up the good work, i love your blog…
Just want to say to Raye: Remi LOVED your comment and I did too, thank you. It makes it really weird when I’m sitting here with Remi and she reads some of these rude comments. I think sometimes it bothers her more then me. And I can’t blame her.
Thank you for being so blunt! You just keep proving I picked you for all the right reasons to be a writer on CCL.
Loved your vlog… you crack me up! Hope Dinah Shore was amazing!
sasha you’re even prettier in person
your hair i want to run my hands through it and pull it back while i fuck you till you scream my name and beg for more
you’ll be my pillow princess