While researching my last post about Mariah Harmony, I found out that her sexy fiance, Florencia Garcia a.k.a Tragik …. is super talanted! Check out the hot butchness and you might recognize a certain reality TV femme in one of those videos Share on Facebook
Like any good lesbian, I love dogs. I don’t just love my dogs, I love all dogs. Which of course makes me a huge fan of Pitbulls & Parolees. I think that Tia and her daughters are amazing and doing God’s work basically. And of course from the first time I saw her daughter [...]
Well hello all. Long time no see. Yet again I come writing with a heavy heart from my little corner in Ohio. My brothwr died two days before my birthday in January. And so I have been hiding away in my little hole. I do however make all kinds of time to stop by and [...]
I sort of suck at self promotion, I rock at promoting others. No really. Recently, I’ve gotten quite a bit more interest from various companies asking to advertise on CCL. Most of which I have turned down. Why would I turn down money? Easy, it’s not about the money. CCL has been my personal passion [...]
This is the first post from our newest guest writer, E from Sapphic City. She hails from down under and I think she makes a great addition for CCL! Don’t you? Those of you who tuned in for a fetish blog this week, I am sorry to say, you will be sadly disappointed… Unfortunately Ladies, due [...]
We met up with a few friends of ours at a martini lounge. Walking up to the door, S had been holding my hand all the way from the car. But the moment we crossed the threshold, she dropped my hand like a hot potato. I noticed, but didn’t let it bother me. Maybe she [...]
Without saying another word, she pressed her body up against mine from behind and I felt her lips on my neck, her tongue tracing a figure eight on my skin. With one hand still on my breast, her other slid down my body. All rational thoughts ceased to exist inside my head at this [...]
After that awkward girls day out with Zoe and S, I decided it was probably better to try to keep them apart. Which wasn’t that difficult since Zoe lived 5 minutes from me in the South Bay and S was about a 45 minute drive, out in Hollywood. S and I saw each other [...]
This is the first day I feel normal since I caught that horrible flu/cold combo pack. It was HORRENDOUS. But I’m back! And I made two new designs today and had to share Click the pics to read the description and inspiration behind them. Share on Facebook
I’m sure you noticed that CCL went offline Thursday night and hasn’t been back till just now. Well, if it hadn’t been for the fact that I got donkey kicked in the face with the worst cold/flu thingy I have ever had, and had been highly medicated with NyQuil I would have lost my marbles [...]
Hi Sasha, I recently began following your blog and love it! You seem to really know women, so I’m hoping you can guide me in the best direction. I’ve been in a relationship with my…I hesitate to say this, girlfriend, since we were in high school It was flaming hot the first 2 years, but when [...]
Last night Remi and I popped Brett and Melanie: Boi Meets Girl into the DVD player. We weren’t sure what we were about to watch. We knew it was an indie film, documentary style and that it was about a butch/femme relationship. What’s there not to like? It opens with Brett and Melanie telling the [...]
Hi Sasha, I think I just need a third party perspective on something and for some unbeknown reason after frequently reading your blog I thought I’d turn to you. To make a long story short, my girlfriend is totally different when she drinks. She tends to push me away physically and emotionally. She says hurtful [...]
Found this in my inbox: 1. What exactly is a Card Carrying Lesbian? 2. What are ALL the different types of lesbians? I wasn’t even sure if this was a legitimate email asking for some advice or some guy being sarcastic. But I decided to go ahead and have a little fun with this. [...]
I am in love with the art work of Brian M. Viveros. I want one or ten of his pieces hanging on my walls but they are always sold out!!! I just wanted to share with you his art in case you haven’t seen it before. Here are some of my favorites: *All art [...]
The last few months have been hard. My mother has been in ill health and Remi had been sick for over two months. Which means I’m left wearing many hats. Chauffer to and from doctor appointments, nurse, maid, personal shopper, caregiver and over all emotional support beam for all involved. Before you ask, Remi is fine [...]
Well it looks like my brutal honesty is finally paying off. I was just named on the the 10 Best Lesbian Dating Bloggers for DatingAdvice.com! And as if the news couldn’t get any cooler, I was also ask to write some guest advice blogs for their lesbian section. That is all. Share on Facebook
I got this email from a reader and didn’t really have any good advice to offer her. Her problem is that her girlfriend is going through menopause. Which as women, is something we are ALL going to go through eventually. To be more specific, the problem she is having is that her girlfriend is having [...]
My love for all things butch is well documented in the pages of CCL. But that doesn’t mean I understand the layers and complexities of the identity. In fact, the more butches I know, the more I realize, I don’t know diddly. For instance the one thing I will never understand is why butches are [...]
In case you forgot where we last left off, you can refresh your memory –> here. I stopped stirring my tea and looked at S. S and Zoe were locked in a silent war of dirty looks. But being well versed in girl warfare I could read it perfectly. They seemed to be daring one [...]