By Guest Writer, DDK
To write a really long comment in the form of a blog here;
Sasha I think I see Remi’s point of view here. My girl loves to be my little suby and so does the girl that I’m seeing on and off. Although I’m not that into the whole S&M Dom and Sub stuff, I naturally fall into it and apparently am good at it. So what if my wifey likes to beg on her knees, be tied up and taken from behind. I do this out of love (even though candle wax can be scary to mess with). The other girl calls me daddy or at least did at one point, shes more submissive in the traditional high femme way.
You femmes are seductive and artful creatures. You love to be treated delicately yet some of you love to be treated roughly in a controlled environment, I get that in a way. I used to think “what if I hurt her” never have. She knows her limits and we often communicate. Diving in head first into a world thats less vanilla can be both frightening and exciting, I learn new things everyday about that side of my girl. In its own way it never gets old. In other ways I’m kind of horrified at what she wants me to do to her. I completely understand how Remi feels based on what you’ve said. Not that its a bad thing though
If its not your thing than its not your thing. But it sure is something worth trying at least once in your lifetime if you can.