What’s Your Tag Line? Butch? Femme? Gay?
I am constantly trying to figure out a way to fight femme invisibility. I get emails every week from poor little femmes that can't convince the…
Butches with Ink
A close friend of ours asked me if I took requests. Do I take requests?? Honey puh-leez! I’m all about pleasing ;) Her question to…
A Young Butch
I just read a comment from a young reader and she asks for some advice on figuring out if she's butch or not. As you…
Butch, Tomboi, Boi ????
So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she's the "butch" in the relationship ... duhhhh ..... but she doesn't identify as butch.…
Femme vs. Butch …. shouldn’t it be Butch + Femme?
What I’ve noticed when I talk to most lesbians is that they have a strong opinion on butch women. Maybe it’s just because we’re in…
Do you choose the femme identity or does it choose you?
I was looking on Amazon for a book about the butch/femme dynamic and I saw a book called “Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity” and I was…
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