OK, so a few days ago Rexie let me know that CCL was down. My heart stopped as I checked to see if it was true! But on my ipad, it loaded. No problem. So I jumped to my laptop (a mac) and it loaded again. No problemo. I started to breathe a sigh [...]
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Apple Stores: The New Gay Cruising Zone
Like a lot of gay people, I’m a Mac girl. As in, my laptop is an Apple and I should have a permanent jack implanted in my head for my Ipod. I actually have three Macs and two Ipods, so if that doesn’t make my point I don’t know what will. I’m a died in [...]
Little Ms. Innocent is a Masochist! Oh my!
There’s nothing I love more then when a reader leaves a comment that inspires an entire blog. Donna had this to say about my less then stellar behavior at Girl Bar last week, “Maybe you pick fights with her because they translate into hot sex?” Mmmmm ….. let me think about that? That sort of [...]
Real Lesbians Sleep With Their Dogs!
Like most lesbians, I have a bevy of furry children and they all sleep in bed in with me. Well two out of three of my little four legged kids share a bed with me and my gf. Which makes for very awkward sleeping positions when you’ve got one little dog that insists on sleeping [...]
Introducing The Lezzys, the Webs all Lesbian Blog Awards
The Lesbian Lifestyle (TLL) is a blog written by lesbians, for lesbians. For the past two years the blog has hosted an online award competition for best lesbian blog worldwide. This year they are introducing The Lezzys. A new name for a bigger and better lesbian blog award contest. The Lezzys will have more categories [...]
First Night Out in a While …. Oh boy
A few of you asked me to re-post this so here it is. This is the previously deleted post that I took down because a reader left a scathing comment. Usually I have pretty thick skin but I guess I didn’t yesterday. But thanks to some of your comments I feel a little better so [...]
I apologize.
Yep. I was a jerk last night. Yes I deleted my last post because I was ashamed of my behavior. Yes. I was a very bad girl. Wow what a surprise. I apologize to anyone who reads this for my saintly behavior. So to those of you that now side with women I used to [...]
A well trained dyke is an armed dyke.
I just had to address what Judith said in her comment. Part of it read, “Because most people who are at risk of gay bashing (along with the general population) probably don’t know how to *use* a gun. Even if you do know how to use a gun, you’re more likely to have an accident, [...]
Armed Lesbians
I’ve noticed an alarming trend among Southern California Lesbians. An aversion to guns or weapons of almost any kind. Which goes along with their mostly liberal politics. Don’t get me wrong, I’m as liberal as any dyke you’ll ever meet when it comes to keeping politics and religion out of my bedroom. But I have [...]
Why don’t femmes pay?
Why don’t femmes pay? When we were up in Oregon on our road trip to visit Remi’s family, we stopped by her sister’s work. It’s a pretty small town and I’m pretty sure we were the only lesbian couple walking around town holding hands. After we left, her sister was swarmed by the people in [...]
Opinionated Lesbians: Huh. Who knew?
Well thanks everyone for your extremely well thought out comments about my possible dive back into the dance world. I have to admit, sitting there last night with Remi as she read all the comments you left felt a little weird. I was worried that some of what was said would have a negative affect [...]
Writing, Dance and Self-Respect: NOT mutually exclusive
Well I wasn’t really expecting for the comments that I got about my dancing on the side to be so, well … one sided. I guess I thought you might take my side on this, but boy when I’m wrong, I’m wrong. But I would like to thank LurkerLezzie for her supportive comment. Like I [...]
Don’t be a (Strip) Tease
As much as I hate to be a cliche, I’m sad to admit that I fall prey to the “starving writer” persona at the moment. Yes, I used to have a great paying job that I hated. So I took a leap of faith and jumped off the gravy train and decided to try to [...]
Response to Jen’s Comment
Jen wrote in, “This is really funny to me. I think I was one of the first girls you ever dated. I remember going out with you and we NEVER went home alone. We always had our pick of playthings to take home with us. I can’t believe you’ve closed your bedroom doors to the [...]
Signs you may have accidentally gotten married:
The first step onto this slippery slope is have her move in. Then the rest is a quick slide downhill. Witness the domino effect: You join Costco together and one of you has to fill out the “spousal info” or even worse, as in our case, she fills it out for you, because she has [...]