Last we spoke I had just dropped the bomb that, yes I, Sasha Lotrian, little Miss Just Say No her whole life was now, literally a card carrying stoner. But I didn’t tell you what happened next. I went directly to the best dispensary in the area, because I’m a huge dork, I had already [...]
Tag Archives: lesbian
Girl Zero: Chapter 10
After that awkward girls day out with Zoe and S, I decided it was probably better to try to keep them apart. Which wasn’t that difficult since Zoe lived 5 minutes from me in the South Bay and S was about a 45 minute drive, out in Hollywood. S and I saw each other [...]
Bipolar Relapse
The last few months have been hard. My mother has been in ill health and Remi had been sick for over two months. Which means I’m left wearing many hats. Chauffer to and from doctor appointments, nurse, maid, personal shopper, caregiver and over all emotional support beam for all involved. Before you ask, Remi is fine [...]
The Vanity Files
By Guest Writer, Elegy So as I mentioned earlier I have been in a bit of a funk, and as a result of that I slipped down the Hill of Shame; I stopped eating – I’m a depression induced starver as opposed to eater- and this time I could barely force myself to eat [...]
Butches with Ink
A close friend of ours asked me if I took requests. Do I take requests?? Honey puh-leez! I’m all about pleasing Her question to me was actually more for the femmes in the audience. She kindly asks, “What do femmes think of butches with tattoos?” This by the way, is coming from a super suave, [...]
The one in which I dis-identify with “gay”
By Guest Writer, RadDyke I seem to be on a label kick these days: writing about them, thinking about them… and discarding them. My recent realization: I hate the label “gay” for myself. Now, I recognize that it works for some people. I am just not one of those people. I’m okay with “lesbian”, although [...]
Gay Values & Ellen Degeneres
I’m sure you have all seen or read about this. There is yet another bigoted group, called One Million Moms wanted JC Penny to fire Ellen as their spokesperson, because she’s gay. As an outspoken lesbian, I am often conflicted as to how to best combat the biggotry and hatred that’s out there. It’s [...]
CCL Meets the Huffington Post!!!!
Guess who’s the newest blogger for the Huffington Post’s Gay Voices? Yep …. that would be me. How did this happen?? Well let’s just say I have friends in high places … or CCL does to be more specific. We basically have a little PR goddess that knows the right people and she pointed the [...]
66 Days of Badly Mixed Metaphors
According to various googable sources, it takes 66 days, or there about, to form a new habit. As most of you know, I am a hopeless insomniac. Insomnia is like my arch nemesis that always wins! It’s like that mean girl in high school that was thinner then I was, more popular, faster and on [...]
Coming Out to My Bro
I came out to my brother today! Wait, I can hear you now. How is Sasha not out to her brother?! Let me explain, while I do tend to be one of the most outspoken, Outwardly OUT people you will ever meet, my brother just found out today. Because he’s 18 years older then me [...]
Lesbian Bipolar Quiz
OK, so I lied. The quiz isn’t specifically for lesbians. But a lesbian wrote to me asking about this and most likely lesbians will read this. I don’t think there is actually a quiz specifically for lesbians with bipolar disorder, but we can pretend for the hell of it. Because really, wouldn’t it be nice [...]
Gay Star Search On CCL
I am always surprised by the readership here on CCL, even after the occasional writer’s block induced hiatus. I was trying to think of a way to take advantage of the strong community and fan base of this site, when I decided to try something new. I want to start showcasing new talent within the [...]
Bustin outta the closet
Written by Guest Butch, K Here it is. Let’s delve into my past. I’ve noticed that many of you CCL readers are questioning whether or not you fit under this so-called genderqueer umbrella. So I’ll tell you my story…. When I was younger….and by younger I mean a little elementary school kid. I always noticed [...]
Butch, Tomboi, Boi ????
So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she’s the “butch” in the relationship … duhhhh ….. but she doesn’t identify as butch. I don’t get it. I think butch is less of a fashion statement and more of an attitude and a way you approach life. So instead of writing about it, [...]
The List
Drum roll please …… OK so in racking my brain to remember every place in Los Angeles that I’ve been able to pick up women, get picked up on or just spied some juicy possibilities I have come up with the following list. (Sorry to my readers who are not local, but maybe your home [...]