Passive Butch vs. Aggressive Femme
I thought that when I started dating butch women that things would be easier, clearer in some ways. That perhaps some semblance of psuedo-gender roles might…
Let’s Pontificate On Our Gayness …. All Day Long
Today a straight friend of mine said to me, “Why do you talk about being gay all the time? It’s not like I run around all…
Long Beach Pride & Club Sauvage
Hey ladies, as all of you local girls already know it's Long Beach Pride this weekend! Thank gawd, since I am in serious need of some…
How can I look Gayer? Yep. GAYER.
Women are the most delicious thing on this planet. I just can’t tell you how proud I am to be an out lesbian in LA. Since…
This Lezzy Lives by a Code
Since I’ve started Card Carrying Lesbian I’ve been surprised and a little hurt when a friend here or there would confide something in me and then…
Do you choose the femme identity or does it choose you?
I was looking on Amazon for a book about the butch/femme dynamic and I saw a book called “Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity” and I was…
Virgin Lesbians
I was having this interesting conversation with a girl I just met. She’s about twenty-seven, pretty and identifies as an out lesbian. What struck me was…
You’ve got to catch them straight off the bus … before the pimps get to them!
A friend of ours is having a BBQ this weekend for his birthday. So I thought I’d do a little social experiment and see if I…