I got this email from a reader and didn’t really have any good advice to offer her. Her problem is that her girlfriend is going through menopause. Which as women, is something we are ALL going to go through eventually. To be more specific, the problem she is having is that her girlfriend is having [...]
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The Blog of Truth: The Dilemma of a Red-Blooded Lesbian
By Guest Writer, WWG She wasn’t my type in the least. It was a business meeting, informal, but still for the purpose of business. My eyes, therefore, were meant to stay at hers. But her top? Well, it kept slipping down to reveal sumptuous cleavage. And, well, I lost the fight. Night. Mare. So, this [...]
Why Can’t Lesbians Be More Like Gay Boys?
I am obsessed with the TV show 1 Girl 5 Gays! Does anyone else watch this?! Remi and I record it to watch in the morning over coffee because we are so intrigued with gay boy culture. Or should I say, the differences between the gay boys and the gay girl cultures? I have [...]
I Need Some Lovin’ ;) Fan Me on the Huffington!
Hey, my latest post is up on the Huffington. If you like CCL please support me over there, like it or “fan me” … LOL, I don’t know. Comments are super appreciated. Click HERE to go to the Huffington Post Gay Voices and show me some love people!!! Share on Facebook
Butch on Butch Hostility
Sasha’s recent issues and curiosities about femme on femme hostility have led me to examine my own brand of hostility that tends to surface. Butch on butch. blech. I have a hard time getting along with butches, some I’m ok with. Some tend to overstep their boundaries with J. Some I just can’t stand because [...]
Bad Back, Good Wife
About 9 years ago or so, I injured my back during a krav maga class. It was basically what happens when a 250 pound Russian ass hole doesn’t think girls should be fight training and takes it upon himself to “teach me a lesson.” But at the time, adrenaline and pure fury allowed me to [...]
Unconfirmed Lesbian Sightings
You know what I’m talking about. You’re out shopping at Trader Joe’s and the cute, tomboyish checkout girl is dinging your gaydar. You smile, you flirt a little and then you stop yourself. “Oh crap.” You think to yourself, “I think she’s straight!” You’re double guessing yourself now because she giggled in a really femme, [...]
This Ain’t No Invisible Tea Party
After multiple mental run-throughs of our various destination wedding ideas, I started to freak out. Was I cheating myself by simply having a pool-side cocktail party wedding? Was the original “no-stress” virtue of this plan actually a compromise in disguise, slyly cheating me out of my dream wedding? Was I giving up before I had [...]
“Bros Before Hoes”
OK, OK …. I realize that the title of this blog is disturbingly offensive. But it’s honestly what crossed my mind when Tony came clean to me about sleeping with Zoe and S. Am I calling all women hoes? No, of course not! Am I calling Zoe and S hoes? …. Yes. Yes I am. [...]
Straight Women Falling for Lesbians
What’s on tap for today? Well first order of business is a pressing matter that several readers have written to me about. Straight women falling for gay women. It goes a little like this: Straight woman, married with children meets and falls head over heels for a lesbian. Straighty leaves her hetero life for her [...]
The Bonds of Brotherhood
Written by Guest Butch, K Much like in the misogynist male dominated world where brotherhood and the “man-law” dominates friendships, the butches have one too. I have a simple group of friends. Although…none of them I would call my brothers anymore. Except my actual brother. Johnny was primed from a ripe age to know that [...]
Lesbian Orgies, Here We Come!!!
… as innocent observers of course OK, so it’s finally here … Dinah Shore. If you’re reading this past noon today, then we are already on the road, headed for the desert. Which means that I won’t be blogging and not sure if I’ll have the time, or soberness to find some free Wi-Fi to [...]
Lana a.k.a Lesbian Bait
The other night we went out to Girl Bar, with Lana in tow. I had assured Lana several times, that she would not be mauled, attacked or hit on. I mean after all, it’s a lesbian bar and while it is a bar, we are still women. Which in my experience has meant that in [...]
Friendship and BPD
Life doesn’t stop for your problems. Life doesn’t even slow down. You’re on the highway of life, barreling down the road at 100 miles an hour and when a bipolar episode hits …. it’s like wham! Crashing into the guardrail at full speed, without a seat belt on. But instead of shattering glass and the [...]
Two Lesbians Walk into the VA ….
Going to the Long Beach VA with my Marine girlfriend is always an experience within itself. The other day, she had to go in to get her wrist checked. Apparently, dating me may give her carpal tunnel syndrome or worse. As soon as we step foot on VA soil, we go into “act straight mode” [...]