The “other girl”
It has come to my attention from several sources, including that of my own personal opinion that the “other girl” has far outgrown that oversimplified pseudonym.…
When it’s not you. It’s them … or at least their issues.
A few months ago I went out on a date with a woman who I met online. We hit it off right away via email and…
For every label a critic
This just in: I think my mom still thinks this whole gay thing may be just a phase. Tonight I was drinking a glass of wine…
High femme vs Stone Femme: one interpretation
There are countless ways to define the femme identity/gender and as many ways for each woman to express it in her own way. But for…
When Single Really Means SINGLE … within the Lesbian Lexicon
I don’t know if this is a lesbian thing or not? Maybe it’s a lesser version of the U-haul syndrome but whatever it is, we need…
Passive Butch vs. Aggressive Femme
I thought that when I started dating butch women that things would be easier, clearer in some ways. That perhaps some semblance of psuedo-gender roles might…
Musings on Lesbian Promiscuity
From my experiences in the straight world and the lesbian world I’ve noticed something diametrically opposed to one another. Well, at least for myself. When…
Let’s Pontificate On Our Gayness …. All Day Long
Today a straight friend of mine said to me, “Why do you talk about being gay all the time? It’s not like I run around all…