LDR’s and Dildo Etiquette
A reader wrote in: I’m currently in a LDR with a butch and I am femme. She recently came to visit and we bought a dildo…
Advice For Mixed Message Lesbians
I recently got this little email asking for some advice. And before I share it with you, let me apologize to all of you that I…
How To Kiss Girls
I recently received the following email: (slightly edited for anonymity) Hi Sasha! My name is M, and I just have a few questions for you, because…
TOMBOI Culture: STYLE IS FREEDOM
STYLE IS FREEDOM is this cool fashion brand that I came across earlier this year when I was looking for birthday presents for Remi. Trying to…
Tips for Femme Invisibility: How To Set Off Their Gaydar
Are you an Invisible Femme in the Lesbian Community?
Ask yourself a serious question now: “How gay is your instagram?”
Self-Partnered Lesbians
‘Single’ in today’s society has a sort of transitory feel to it, since coupledom seems to be the norm. But the term ‘Self-Partnered’ sounds like a choice and a commitment, to one’s self. It sounds thought out and purposeful.
Lesbian Dating 101: Who Pays?
Who pays on a lesbian date? That is a recurring question from many readers over many years and I can see why, because the answer isn't…
Is Bisexuality Old-Fashioned Now?
That question is almost absurd to me, considering just ten years ago, bisexuality seemed to be edgy and almost taboo. Yet here we are, in the…